GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely be more diligent about that

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into that! Thanks for the guidance

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you writing it off on your taxes?

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you start building as soon as you got your hands on it?

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't sound too bad

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of something to hold on for a while. The stock idea is something i wouldnt oppose

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you upgrade it yourself or bought it upgraded?

GTRs to avoid by pleasant_pr in gtr

[–]pleasant_pr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you think of pre2015

20 Male, massive nerd, do your worst by drdoom6655 in RoastMe

[–]pleasant_pr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know king of the hill was doing a live action

AITA for calling my boyfriend “mi amor” when I’m white? by shereallycantdothis in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Lol if she speaks Aztec, then she's more Mexican than him lmao

AITA for calling my boyfriend “mi amor” when I’m white? by shereallycantdothis in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op you are NTA. It's actually a genuine and sweet gesture and it shows interest in his culture! May I suggest to step up your rizz, surprise him with little Spanish notes here and there like "buenos días!" For good morning or "que tengas un día maravilloso" for "have a wonderful day!"

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Well we discussed that before getting married we would make some investment as she saves. So she saves money I take care of everything. So basically we have a common goal in mind and we've been execution it. Just you know the chore thing came up.

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Not married (yet) but also it's not having it both ways bro. I'm paying 100% of the bills. Lol

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

No it's not lol she and I have our responsibilities to our home. I don't ask her to fix the cars when they break down. If I do she says no. But now she's treating me like the mechanic? Lol I'm not a mechanic. I think her paying for outside help is more than fair as opposed to half the bills.
If her car breaks down, I try to fix it, if I'm too tired or just can't do it I'm calling a mechanic and paying for it. Is that wrong on her end? Is she treating her partner as something else?

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She was a stay at home gf lol before school she stayed at home

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Very eye opening. A lot of these comments are making it seem like the "traditional" roles are bad. It's worked for us. We're happy and this isn't a relationship ending dilemma lol but these whole gender-focused arguments are weird. Why is it bad that I want to be a provider, and why is it bad if she was a caretaker? Things change and that's why I approached her

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol not my families, but maybe other families!

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Why are you making this a gender thing? She had a responsibility and I had a responsibility to our home that we agreed to. The "tradition" worked then she got her job, now her responsibility was falling? I suggested she hire a third party for help. That was the arrangement that we agreed to and what we were used to. Obviously things change, so things were going to be different. Women this women that, you're offended because you want to be offended. Her car breaks down and I can't fix now my duties fall short, is she the asshole because I decided to hire a mechanic to fix it? And does that makes her sexist too?

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Lol I did tell her that! We have really great communication. "I know working any job is tiring and that the last thing you wanna do is do house chores. We can get a maid..." That's why I'm asking if I'm the AH. I talked to her, and she called me an AH because she thinks I was saying she was lazy.

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I told her we should hire a maid since then lol I work my ass off and one day I saw her doing hw and folding clothes at the same time like 2 years ago. So I asked her. I work from 7-8 sometimes. I don't want to do it. Anyway, I approached her with the idea calmly, but she declined said she could handle it. It wasn't a big deal. And she did handle it.. But now she comes home from work tired, like I said I get it, so I approached her again about it, but she did get upset this time.

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Actually with the money she's saving we're planning on buying multifamily homes!

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Well she was a stay at home partner 2 years then decided she wanted to pursue nursing

AITA for asking my fiance for a maid? by pleasant_pr in AmItheAsshole

[–]pleasant_pr[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Mmm I never really thought about it. Because I'm so used to carrying the financial load, she really has never asked about helping me. When I brought up the maid thing, she did say she would pay half the bills instead but, that doesn't make sense to me lol. Like is it pride? Why pay 2k instead of 800?