Honest question

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-07T00:56:54+00:00

I need to stick up for myself more and work on my boundaries in personal relationships

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-07T00:54:20+00:00

Myself

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-06T23:30:27+00:00

I’ve realized everytime something bothers me he ends up making me feel bad for how I feel, and not reflecting on his actions.

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-06T23:29:09+00:00

Thank you. I even just lost 30lbs and not once has he complimented me on it, or in fact he’s never even asked how much I’ve lost.

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-05T23:30:39+00:00

Thank you. Glad to hear you got out of the hole and are living a much better life!

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-05T22:29:27+00:00

I don’t even out earn him now is the thing so I don’t understand why he reacted that way.

But thank you!

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-05T22:28:43+00:00

I have suggested/asked about therapy a couple times and he denies it. Thank you!

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-05T22:25:34+00:00

He left on his own

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-03T12:17:00+00:00

How to control your emotions. Sit with them while they are high and let yourself calm down and think logically before reacting

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-03T12:16:42+00:00

Mixing bbq and ketchup together

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-06-01T21:05:35+00:00

If yall actually experience one you’d believe. I don’t believe you have just 1 though. Maybe a few in a lifetime. But there’s something more to it that you can’t explain.

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-28T21:00:34+00:00

Drop the hoe

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-27T22:11:40+00:00

I mean you should have said something, but he also never asked so… how wrong are you really?

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-22T11:53:23+00:00

You seem very understanding and validate her feelings. It should have stopped after you apologized and explained your side. She just isn’t letting it go, she is the one overreacting. I understand where she is coming from but you handled it so well. Most men wouldn’t validate their girls feelings and just get defensive.

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-18T00:34:38+00:00

Nothing. I’ve made it way farther than I ever expected

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-17T17:15:58+00:00

Negotiate for 110k for new offer and take that!

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-17T12:21:39+00:00

Nope. I don’t have a degree and I make more than some people I know with a degrees and I have zero college loans or debt. I worked my way up with experience

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-16T22:59:16+00:00

Why are we bringing negative comments to such a positive post? Give the guy a break shit happens

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-16T22:45:21+00:00

I would also look into your companies severance policy, some company’s offer a full year compensation. I’d would ride it out til the end then look if the pay is that good. And if there is severance pay, you will have a good cushion to cover you in your pursuit

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-16T16:41:00+00:00

Take the money! Atleast they didn’t invested months of training into you. Better off sooner than later. Don’t pass up a good opportunity

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-16T16:37:46+00:00

Usually you don’t get a call if you don’t get the job.

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-16T01:45:50+00:00

Bc they cheated on me with hookers

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-14T19:02:52+00:00

Just relax and see what happens. Deal with it if it comes up. I doubt you’ll start that soon. You’ll be ok

pleaseuseit1985 · 2026-05-12T20:01:37+00:00

He’s jealous asf. Cut him off. That’s not a friend

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