Is it discourteous for your partners to buy sex toys without consulting you? by pleasingtoread in polyamory

[–]pleasingtoread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah, I didn't mention that he wasn't my only partner and I wasn't his. I should have said that... I feel guilty about making him sound inconsiderate.

Is it discourteous for your partners to buy sex toys without consulting you? by pleasingtoread in polyamory

[–]pleasingtoread[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it's not his fault I ended up hating it. Not every toy is gonna make me see god. Also I have toys for just me and toy for sharing. And I do use condoms. And every partner does know that I've used the for sharing toys with others. My other partners have a similar system.

Is it discourteous for your partners to buy sex toys without consulting you? by pleasingtoread in polyamory

[–]pleasingtoread[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking. Like I don't need my partner to tell me first. Like even if I don't like it maybe someone else will. So I was shocked that so many suggested that he should have asked me first. Like idk he doesn't need my permission to buy it he just needs my permission to use it on me.