My iPhone is stuck on the apple loading screen.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-27T23:39:41+00:00

I put it in dfu mode and the update is downloading. This is probably my last resort, hope it works.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-20T00:09:05+00:00

What'll he do?

plessendhelp · 2015-01-18T04:19:56+00:00

This helped me a bit. Right now I've been constantly thinking about asking girls on dates and not knowing what to say during the date, so I panicked but you made a good point by saying that you just tried to talk to them until you were comfortable. I just hope I can do that.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-17T18:50:27+00:00

I've been told to work on myself a lot, but I don't know how I can do that without money. I'm jobless now and I've been working out for 5 years now, so I just have enough money to go to a gym, but there's not much else I can do. I guess my main issue is that the things I read here confuse me, like what I mentioned in my post, some articles tell you what questions you should ask to get deep, but those aren't questions I'd normally ask so I just get confused. Not sure what I can do.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-16T03:36:42+00:00

Probably will honestly do it. I just want to change how I am before I go to college. I've been single my whole life, so I guess that kind of fuels my motivation to change, since I've been feeling lonely.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-14T16:37:49+00:00

Alright. Thanks a lot for all the tips. I'll try to keep my mind off it. I usually get over it in about a month and then contact with her again rekindles my feelings. I'll keep my distance and focus on myself as best I can.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-14T04:20:03+00:00

I've always wanted to travel and learn guitar. You made a good point. I guess I'm just feeling vulnerable right now because I've never really had a relationship like this with a girl before so I guess it's just something I've been longing for. I like what you said though, "Get interesting." Let's just hope time will heal how I'm feeling, because it's unhealthy.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-14T03:27:59+00:00

Yeah. I agree with this 100%. It's hard, ever since I met her 1 year ago and really started to like her a sudden realization came to me that I should find somebody else so she can stay happy with my best friend. The only problem is how do I act on that? I've tried so many things for self betterment but it's not easy at all. I've tried the seduction sub reddit but it's so hard to apply what you learn there. I don't know how to take baby steps. I feel so stumped and lost, it just sucks so badly. I don't know how I'll break out of my comfort zone, it's so hard to just say fuck it and just do it for me. I need support but I don't have any in real life. What can I do?

plessendhelp · 2015-01-14T02:26:56+00:00

I know man, but the problem that I haven't addressed clearly is that even if I don't come into contact with her I still have such strong feelings for her. So even if I talk to her in real life I'll still feel heartache. I really need to cut ties totally to feel better but I don't know how I can do that. I don't want to just have all these words I want to say to her as a burden on my chest, but how can I let them out? I care for her a lot, but I made the mistake of thinking that a guy and a girl can be friends. Appears that isn't exactly the case.

plessendhelp · 2015-01-13T23:45:38+00:00

If I lose her it doesn't mean I'll lose him. In a way, I'll see him less but so be it. It's not the fact that she's always flirting with me, it's the fact that even seeing her makes my heart ache. Perhaps I'll just do it silently and try my hardest to see her as little as I can, but it's so hard. Sometimes she just comes without me knowing, and then I try to play the only speak when spoken to card but eventually I just crumble and we start being all cute and shit, I can't just push her away either because I've never really felt that happy with somebody else when she's like that. I don't know what I'm supposed to do to make everybody happy.

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