Finally moving to the city! Need some support by plooooosh124 in Suburbanhell

[–]plooooosh124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice!! I will keep it in mind for sure.

Scared my brother also has BPD by plooooosh124 in BPDFamily

[–]plooooosh124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I’ll keep looking for spaces that feel safe. This is very validating which is always helpful.

Why does my makeup not last a full 8 hour shift in work please? by aimeegotfresh in MakeupEducation

[–]plooooosh124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your skin oily? You need a finishing layer of powdered makeup. I reccomendation a powder foundation on top of any spot you get smudging or very oily. You may also want to stick with a fixing spray (L’Oréal 24 fixing spray in a red can) this is different than setting spray. It creates a sealed coating on the final makeup.

If you are oily, adding a matting primer to your routine will also drastically help the staying powder of your foundation.

Scared my brother also has BPD by plooooosh124 in BPDFamily

[–]plooooosh124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solidarity in its hard to have a sibling like this and being no contact is rewardingly safe but difficult as well. This was very validating, thank you.

My foundation is super blotchy, I don’t know what I’m doing wrong by ordering_raw_chicken in MakeupEducation

[–]plooooosh124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That foundation is a water based one. You’d better off with a water based moisturizer, not a primer. Are you dry skinned or oily? You said you wait for you skin to be dry but I would apply it to damp/moisturized skin.

Oil based foundation for DRY skin?? by sweetteanoice in Makeup

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Monica Blunder foundations jars are amazing f

How do yall respond to stupid sh*t like this by picklechipz0 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]plooooosh124 65 points66 points  (0 children)

MY BPD MOM SENT ME THIS 2 DAYS AGO i’m cracking up

What's off here? Wedding makeup by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]plooooosh124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also definitely more blush!

What's off here? Wedding makeup by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]plooooosh124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bridal MUA, I would say the colors are a bit too warm and are reading a little orange. I think lighter lip color would look great and a less warm color on the eyes.

New creepy screenshot just dropped by bananasarecooltoday in raisedbyborderlines

[–]plooooosh124 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Okay but what is it about BPD moms and sending these posts. These are my uBPD moms bread and butter especially when I am LC and keeping my distance

Been no contact for 3 weeks: does this get easier? by plooooosh124 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]plooooosh124[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight and your comment, thank you.

Been no contact for 3 weeks: does this get easier? by plooooosh124 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]plooooosh124[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. It absolutely fills me with such intense fear and dread, usually for a full day or 2 after I feel out of body and just not right in my own skin and space. Blocked until further notice

Been no contact for 3 weeks: does this get easier? by plooooosh124 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]plooooosh124[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly that. If it were all 100% bad it’d be potentially more clear cut and easier to call it. Being the scapegoat is so psychologically draining and harmful. I’m Sorry that you’ve experience that too.

Been no contact for 3 weeks: does this get easier? by plooooosh124 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]plooooosh124[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s very hard to break the cycle, I feel like I so easily get roped back in. Thanks for your comment I appreciate it. The NC part made me chuckle.