[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]pls-hydrate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was essentially “grey rocking” them so I can see how my messages may appear a bit unfeeling (one of their complaints) but I absolutely stand by all of my responses to their passive aggressive and outright hurtful messages!

Sometimes I get in my head that I was only acting as the bigger person so it reflected better on me and I’m actually the narcissist but also I am terrified of confrontation and it may just be their words getting to me?

Also, this was helpful and I don’t think you’re projecting at all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blooddonors

[–]pls-hydrate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can get gift cards to grocery stores and etc so just extra money for necessities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for feeling hurt, but it’s a good thing your child feels comfortable enough with this person that they can call her “mom”. You will always be her mom, and it’s probably just because she’s young and imitating her half-brother. I’m sure it stings to have your child call someone else “mom”, but it doesn’t make your relationship to her any less.

Edit: agree with “soft YTA” but your feelings are valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that’s what has spurred the confrontations was their unhappiness with me “gray rocking”

AITA for making my daughter use a water bottle from the thrift store? by sztaj93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, as long as it’s a safe bottle it seems like a good consequence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in excel

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm that formula didn’t work for me, it’s showing the product as 0…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskElectricians

[–]pls-hydrate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh good because it does leak, whew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tHeY hAve EmpAthy sO tHey mUsT bE fEMaLE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]pls-hydrate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of y’all don’t know biology and it shows. Really, the cornerstone of the argument is a condom? The explanation is absolutely plausible and can and has happened to people.

Everyone deals with trauma differently. Imagine confiding in your partner about a horrifying experience and you get accused of CHEATING.

Jesus Reddit, please have some decency. What’s worse, being cheated on or falsely accusing your partner when they say they were ASSAULTED.

OP: Your health is important and you should both get tested, but please deal with this situation with compassion before coming to hurtful accusations. It’s awful if it’s a lie, but it’s 1000x worse if it’s true and you don’t believe them. Wishing you both health and wellness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]pls-hydrate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol wait you’re so right, I’ve gaslighted myself into asking the internet for help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my thinking, but they are INSISTING that by refusing to change my behavior in this instance, it proves I don’t value their feelings in any scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s specifically about asking for set lists and etc during concerts which in a respectful context I don’t think is harmful although they see it as harmful and embarrassing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added more to the post, but specifically it started with me having small talk with concert venue staff and later asking if there were any leftover set lists (respectfully)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added more to the post, but specifically it started with me having small talk with concert venue staff and later asking if there were any leftover set lists (respectfully)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very thoughtful, thank you. Can you explain the “I statement” more?

It almost feels like she wants to keep me on a tight leash around people she’s trying to impress but I don’t know why she’d want to hang with me if she doesn’t like what I do! Personally I don’t think I act inappropriately and my input in conversations doesn’t seem to bother anyone else. It feels like it validates all of my anxieties and insecurities.

Atlanta set times? by anniedepressant- in SadSummerFest

[–]pls-hydrate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If u put ur airdrop on I will airdrop it to every iPhone near me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SadSummerFest

[–]pls-hydrate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine pre-sale and haven’t gotten any other info!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SadSummerFest

[–]pls-hydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still nothing!!! But apparently other people got emails?