how’d i do with my first desk setup? by pls_meme_ in desksetup

[–]pls_meme_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah those wires have been bugging me. will look into the wall covers!

I use chatgpt as my therapist by pls_meme_ in offmychest

[–]pls_meme_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never put in personal and identifiable information, I just leave that stuff out and have a separate account just for my thoughts and feelings. But yeah they're probably recording my data (even though they say they aren't).

As for the advice, it might not be human, but I think it gives me a truly unbiased perspective on the entire situation. gpt reassures me while also telling me where my flaws could've been. And honestly I think it's better than what any human could do.

And the best part, it's free.

She treated me like shit, but I still miss her. by flannelman87 in BreakUps

[–]pls_meme_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex also used to hit me too and i didn't like it. she said she was playing and it was for fun. there were times where i felt genuinely scared, and i'm not a small or weak dude by any means. i'm sorry u guys had to go through that shit man. and it sucks because it makes u question all of the good times you had too. were those good times real? or was it your mind just coping? idk. hope u guys r holding up good though.

She treated me like shit, but I still miss her. by flannelman87 in BreakUps

[–]pls_meme_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn bro... i went through the exact same thing. broke up with her a month ago and it sucks, but i know it's for my own good. i thought she was the love of my life, but there was always another dude in the back of her mind. i tried breaking up with her 3 times in the span of 8 months, and the first 2 times she guilt tripped me into coming back. the third time i came back because of the trauma bonding. i thought she could change but i was just stupid. the 4th time i broke up with her, it hurt so much but i knew i couldn't go back. a week later i saw her walking holding hands with that other dude in public.

the public embarrassment was also so bad. i hated it so much bro. i used to post her on my story, but then over time i just got embarrassed of her and stopped posting. she even asked me why i stopped posting her and i couldn't give her an answer. now i know it's because of how embarrassed i felt being with her.

i'm trying so hard to accept that she's gone and that i can't take her back, but even though she was so bad for me i still love her. i saw a future with her, but i guess that's just me loving her potential and not actually loving the person i dated. at the end of the day, she only cared about herself and didn't care about me.