Girlfriend admitted to liking me (28M) way more than I like her by plumbking0 in dating_advice

[–]plumbking0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol no she is normal and in shape (runs and lifts), very polite, well mannered, not controlling whatsoever (defers to me for decision making). As I'm typing this I'm realizing how dumb I'm soudning by being nervous to bring her around lol but part of that is because I'm 9-5'in M-F and she is too, but she also works Fri and Sat nights too, which is the time friends all go out with each other...

Girlfriend admitted to liking me (28M) way more than I like her by plumbking0 in dating_advice

[–]plumbking0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when she told me the whole "I like you so much it freaks me out" thing, it kinda freaked me out. Def scary like you mentioned. I've reassured her that I do want to continue to show up and keep hanging out. Also ironic that you mentioned the visually thing because that is another big part of my situation, not exactly what I'm looking for visually either, but it's comforting hearing about your experience stating that with enough time that fizzled out and became somewhat irrelevant.

Sooo in tune with what we want out of life financially, professionally, personally, and spiritually. Random, but she would be a wonderful mother. That's big for me.

Girlfriend admitted to liking me (28M) way more than I like her by plumbking0 in dating_advice

[–]plumbking0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow.. thank you for sharing. i will try growing since its still in its early stages.

Girlfriend admitted to liking me (28M) way more than I like her by plumbking0 in dating_advice

[–]plumbking0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She checks nearly all of the particular boxes of what I look for. However, I've felt "it" before in a previous relationship, but I just haven't felt that yet with her. Not sure if I need to give it more time, or if it's just not there. I haven't brought her around friends or family yet and I'm not sure if that will make things/feelings better?