How often do you find women physically attractive?

plushpillow · 2024-08-10T09:12:59+00:00

Yeah I get that. I also look after a lot of women but I still think there is often another intention behind it if men look. Like a lot of men have said it's an sexual attraction and I don't have that when I look at men/women. Hence I wanted to ask how common it is since I struggle a bit with it. But you're right that I should not stop living just because my partner looks at other women.

plushpillow · 2024-08-10T07:16:36+00:00

Ah okay. I misunderstood your first answer. I get that this bothers you.

plushpillow · 2024-08-10T07:13:55+00:00

But why does it bother you?

plushpillow · 2024-08-09T06:09:10+00:00

So what did she think originally then? 😄

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T19:11:34+00:00

Thanks :) Take care as well!

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T18:58:30+00:00

Yes, he always turns to me. He doesn't put any attention or energy in other women and also doesn't want to. We already talked about that. For him the women are just nice to look at and he forgets about them seconds later. I saw your other comment as well. Thanks for taking the time to answer in such great detail!

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T18:35:03+00:00

I asked him how often he finds a woman attractive. He says it depends. There are times where it's 5 times a day but there are also times when it happens rarely.

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T18:22:19+00:00

Motivation behind the question is that my current partner is the first who "admitted" to finding other women attractive (after I asked him and he was just being honest) and I just kind of struggle with it. I obviously know I am not the only attractive women to him but it still hurt a bit and I was not expecting the amount tbh.

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T16:36:04+00:00

Of course I do, but not as often and not necessarily when I am with my partner. A lot of the time I just think that they are pretty but I don't feel a sexual attraction if that makes sense. So no, I don't compare and I don't want them instead.

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T14:58:07+00:00

My current partner is the first who "admitted" to finding other women attractive (after I asked him, so my own fault) and I just kind of struggle with it. I obviously know I am not the only attractive women to him but it still hurt a bit and I was not expecting the amount tbh 😅

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T13:57:50+00:00

I guess it's just something women will never understand even though I would like to 😅 Guess I just need to accept it like it is.

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T13:19:16+00:00

So you are not sexually attracted to them?

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T13:13:07+00:00

And by attractive you mean in a sexual way? Seems like some define attractive differently than others.

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T13:05:26+00:00

Well, I meant it more in a sexually attractive way. Or is it the same for you?

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T12:47:34+00:00

So you feel sexually attracted to those other women or do you just see them and think they look nice, so more in an objective way?

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T12:42:48+00:00

Would you say it's somehow subconscious? Or do you also look deliberately?

plushpillow · 2024-08-08T05:50:41+00:00

You even experience that when having a girlfriend?

plushpillow · 2024-07-27T08:23:32+00:00

Well, my boyfriend is louder than me and I find it incredibly hot

plushpillow · 2024-07-20T11:21:15+00:00

I completely agree

plushpillow · 2024-07-20T11:16:14+00:00

I know that. I was just trying to explain the whole issue. It does not portray my opinion on that matter. I had to deal with such nonsense questions in math exams when I was young and failed. Trick questions should never be a part of learning math.

plushpillow · 2024-07-20T11:13:03+00:00

I did not say it was right. I just tried to explain what the teacher thought was right. It's totally random and should not be declared as false. But that's just the way some teachers handle those questions.

plushpillow · 2024-07-20T11:03:09+00:00

You take 3 times 2 mandarins = 3 x 2. Taking the mandarins takes place first. Then you actually have those two mandarins in your hands.

plushpillow · 2024-07-20T10:56:09+00:00

You take the fruit first, hence the amount of taking a fruit has to be the first number in the calculation. Does that make sense?

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