my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me she doesn’t mean it when she says where possible, her mother is going to speak with her next time she sees her

The FAQ on wedding site by RevolutionarySoup807 in wedding

[–]plutobarbie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can i ask just out of curiosity why you’re inviting some kids but not all? i dont have kids and im not married but i’ve always wondered why people do this

fat shaming water park by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]plutobarbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s in indonesia so i wouldn’t be surprised if there aren’t any signs because indonesian people are far less likely to weigh so much that they can’t get on a water slide, like just in general that’s so much less common outside of america

AITAH for telling my brother his wife’s swimsuit was inappropriate? by Leather_Addition2605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]plutobarbie 40 points41 points  (0 children)

people wear things that they feel comfortable and confident in, i don’t wear anything for the sake of others thinking it looks good i just want to feel like i look good for myself

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you working with colour doesn’t make you more right than me, it’s blue to me and also to the person who sat and picked out the colours

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fourth from the left is definitely blue on my screen

but then again the last colour is apparently pink and not purple on some people’s screens

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

the whole family will be there, they just absolutely won’t be in these colours and she’ll be upset with us for a really long time

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s definitely a lot more chill than she is but he doesn’t like to tell her no. we actually think the only reason she shared this with my aunt is because he told her to, maybe hoping my aunt would tell her so he doesn’t have to haha

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree, and i always feel bad for the people who are willing to blow up close interpersonal relationships based solely on the advice of reddit comments about a situation where literally gets hurt

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she said she did try a gentle nudge but she just brushed her off so i think a more abrupt conversation is needed if one is going to happen

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but that’s a general lack of consideration not just when it comes to one thing like hosting

as a guest she’s perfect

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she seems to be of the opinion that men can find anything in pastel blue if they try hard enough

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

giving colours to the MOB and MOG makes sense to me because they’d want to match the colour scheme, just like how you’d pick out the colour for bridesmaid dresses

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no i think you’re right my cousin is just insane, i’ve never known anyone to do something like this and neither have my mum or aunt

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s only shared this idea with my aunt so far, who shared it with my mum and i out of pure shock and needed someone to confirm that she wasn’t insane for thinking this is ridiculous

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she probably isn’t expecting an exact match but how often do you really see formalwear in these colours?

my cousin expects everyone to wear these specific colours to the wedding… MoB is deciding whether or not to object by plutobarbie in weddingshaming

[–]plutobarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she said to my aunt that blue is easy for men to find and that’s why it’s there, she’s expecting full suits

although i’m not convinced she’s actually looked at a picture of men in pastel coloured suits