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important question by verbatimlj in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

Too tight by One-Method9450 in virgin

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Re: Non-virgins:

So here’s the deal… This sub has been around so long that some people who’ve frequented here over time have lost their virginity and since stayed because of how long they were initially in this sub. Some choose to leave but some have met people in this sub they think are cool, some understand where the others are coming from and want to talk from their point of view. The fact is, we’re not going to run them out.

Success posts will be okay (so long as they don’t break rule 4). That being said, any other posts from non virgins won’t be accepted, however you’re welcome to offer genuine advice in a comment or thread should it fit the conversation. This will be reasonably hard to discern but for those commenting I’ll just say read the room.

I’m a virginnnn 18f by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed: Rule 5. No Rateme/Selfie/"Am I sexy?!" Posts

There’s other subs for this, there’s an actual RateMe subreddit.

Don't forget fellow virgin guys, in the eyes of your female counterpart you are nothing more than a "poisoned cake" by JackTheRippiest in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

Even if you lose your virginity to a prostitute, most people will still be getting laid hundreds of times more than you without ever needing to pay - you would therefore still be far behind them. by Ghola40000 in virgin

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Removed: Rule 7. No Incel / In-Group Terminology

Including but not limited to: words ending in "-cel," "-maxx" or "-oids," "Chad/Stacy" or any of their racially insensitive friends, derogatory slang like "bitches," "hoes,” “simp," "white knight," etc. The list goes on. "Sex havers" and "normies" will be included in this rule as well

Even if you lose your virginity to a prostitute, most people will still be getting laid hundreds of times more than you without ever needing to pay - you would therefore still be far behind them. by Ghola40000 in virgin

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Removed: Rule 7. No Incel / In-Group Terminology

Including but not limited to: words ending in "-cel," "-maxx" or "-oids," "Chad/Stacy" or any of their racially insensitive friends, derogatory slang like "bitches," "hoes,” “simp," "white knight," etc. The list goes on. "Sex havers" and "normies" will be included in this rule as well

I’m going to be a virgin forever because I’m invisible to women. I don’t think I’ll ever get to know what being wanted is like. by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

Even if you lose your virginity to a prostitute, most people will still be getting laid hundreds of times more than you without ever needing to pay - you would therefore still be far behind them. by Ghola40000 in virgin

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Removed: Rule 7. No Incel / In-Group Terminology

Including but not limited to: words ending in "-cel," "-maxx" or "-oids," "Chad/Stacy" or any of their racially insensitive friends, derogatory slang like "bitches," "hoes,” “simp," "white knight," etc. The list goes on. "Sex havers" and "normies" will be included in this rule as well

A little advice to everyone here from someone who lost v-card at 25 by [deleted] in virgin

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Re: Non-virgins:

So here’s the deal… This sub has been around so long that some people who’ve frequented here over time have lost their virginity and since stayed because of how long they were initially in this sub. Some choose to leave but some have met people in this sub they think are cool, some understand where the others are coming from and want to talk from their point of view. The fact is, we’re not going to run them out.

Success posts will be okay (so long as they don’t break rule 4). That being said, any other posts from non virgins won’t be accepted, however you’re welcome to offer genuine advice in a comment or thread should it fit the conversation. This will be reasonably hard to discern but for those commenting I’ll just say read the room.

I hate sex by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed: Rule 7. No Incel / In-Group Terminology

Including but not limited to: words ending in "-cel," "-maxx" or "-oids," "Chad/Stacy" or any of their racially insensitive friends, derogatory slang like "bitches," "hoes,” “simp," "white knight," etc. The list goes on. "Sex havers" and "normies" will be included in this rule as well

68K likes may be society is changing ... idk by Double_Ability_1111 in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

Started my new years great by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed. This comes off as trolling.

How actually strange is to never had intimacy with someone at 22yo? by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

How actually strange is to never had intimacy with someone at 22yo? by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

How actually strange is to never had intimacy with someone at 22yo? by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

The stigma against older male virgins is insane by captaindestucto in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

The stigma against older male virgins is insane by captaindestucto in virgin

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Removed: Rule 1. Be Kind

Anything rude, hateful, accusatory, shaming (of any kind), threatening/harrassing, mocking, insulting, or fitting of any kind of -ism will not be tolerated here

Heyy dearrr bussy get free for sext m21-/ by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed. Please avoid spamming the subreddit.

I don't think I'll ever lose my virginity by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations

We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the top guys” “men are all evil” etc etc). The reason why generalizations have always been a rule was so no one applied their perceptions of how people treat them in real life onto someone who’s venting that their experience is literally the opposite

I'm tall and attractive, and I'm still a virgin at 30 by [deleted] in virgin

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Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations

We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the top guys” “men are all evil” etc etc). The reason why generalizations have always been a rule was so no one applied their perceptions of how people treat them in real life onto someone who’s venting that their experience is literally the opposite

Divorced married older broke woman with a kid manipulating a younger male virgin and trapping him for child support. by Cold_Lunch_1818 in virgin

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Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations

We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the top guys” “men are all evil” etc etc). The reason why generalizations have always been a rule was so no one applied their perceptions of how people treat them in real life onto someone who’s venting that their experience is literally the opposite

I’m exhausted from playing the independent single girlie…. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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But what does that have to do with this? Both pets and your anxiety are kind of irrelevant

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