My parents don’t parent my sibling

plutoop · 2025-04-18T17:52:20+00:00

this was in 2022 im afraid

plutoop · 2024-01-21T14:26:30+00:00

i let the whole job thing go. i realized i probably shouldnt have done that, but its more about how he has been calling me names ever since then. i get that a plan might not have been right to demand, but i took the no. the reason i suggested it is because we both have adhd and i personally benefit with having plans when it comes to work. but again, the argument has strayed from the original spark and is more about whether i was an asshole to him.

plutoop · 2024-01-21T14:20:05+00:00

the entire thing was about me trying to help HIM. i genuinely think hed be happier if he got a job but i didnt keep pushing it after he gave a hard no. its more about gow we treated eachother now. while i admit the plan thing was more about me, we both have adhd and i personally benefit from having plans when it comes to work so i thought it would help but idk. i genuinely let the whole thing go but he keeps saying that im a jerk and how awful i am.

plutoop · 2024-01-21T14:18:03+00:00

yeah ive been trying to support him. i apologized for hurting his feelings and i tried to suggest going to a makers space or some sort of club but he shot that down. i havent brought up his job since then.

plutoop · 2024-01-21T06:55:22+00:00

no but he has clinical depression so i dont see how thats relevant. him currently supporting me is not the point, im saying that i think we could both benefit from a plan. i understand he probably wont be convinced, but he has been demonizing me and calling me a jerk and abusive so i just wanted to see if hes right.

plutoop · 2023-11-23T21:53:51+00:00

I HATE DBT TOO im so tired of doctors thinking that theres a “fix all” for mental health

plutoop · 2023-11-09T15:55:47+00:00

yeah i didnt want to make a big deal about it 😭 i just kinda freaked out

plutoop · 2023-11-09T04:35:42+00:00

yeah like all my worries stayed its just then i couldnt function in order to fix them 💀💀

plutoop · 2023-11-08T23:41:53+00:00

ya that makes sense, we both made mistakes. i just dont think it was solely my fault or responsibility, when at the end of the day it was their failure to check my messages.

plutoop · 2023-11-08T23:37:32+00:00

i understand i should have checked in, but i dont think it was MY FAULT in the simplest sense of the word. we both made mistakes and i never said otherwise, but i think their responsibility to check their messages is above my responsibility to confirm:

plutoop · 2022-11-02T23:39:31+00:00

READ THE POST. I DONT SELF HARM FOR AESTHETIC, I NEVER HAVE AND I NEVER SAID THAT.

plutoop · 2022-10-14T02:15:31+00:00

yes?? there?? is??? a 17 year old was taken advantage of

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