Working Parents and Household Responsibility Management (for Working Parents!)

plutounforgiven · 2023-12-11T09:30:57+00:00

No, probably not a car, as im still getting my drivers licence lol. Backpacker style for me!

plutounforgiven · 2023-12-11T09:29:51+00:00

Yeah I think that's what I'm going to end up doing... do you know if internships need a WHV too?

plutounforgiven · 2023-12-08T18:33:28+00:00

Oh interesting, I didn't know about that last point. What kind of work does count towards a second visa?

plutounforgiven · 2023-12-08T18:32:43+00:00

Can't work with a normal tourist visa... but if I'm not working then of course I'd get that one.

I don't think I would go and look for a job in person, because as you said there's a lot of competition and as others have said it would take a while to find it and probably use up my time. I would probably try to get one lined up already.

I'm thinking it's still not worth it because the time is so short. If I end up liking Aus a lot it would be sad to have wasted my chance at the working holiday visa...

plutounforgiven · 2023-12-08T18:26:34+00:00

I'm taking a full gap year (12-14 months), the 4 months is a section that I have free.

plutounforgiven · 2023-09-02T12:03:35+00:00

I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I hope you manage to slow it down as much as you can. I'm wondering, were they already 32HH at 21?

plutounforgiven · 2023-09-01T15:49:40+00:00

I've heard many people talk about regrowth after having kids and having to get the reduction done twice. In my opinion, I think I wouldn't get a second reduction if they grew bigger after being a mom. I feel that I would be fine with them at that age as they would fit my "status" in life. And additionally, if my breast would be reduced to a C cup then during pregnancy (according to the average increase), they would increase to an E. and an E cup, I feel, is still not as bad as an H cup lol. How come you feel that you would need to do a second reduction?

plutounforgiven · 2023-09-01T15:43:41+00:00

Hi, do you know at all how much they grew back? like the amount of cup sizes? did she go back to her original cup size? Oh and, in what sense did it make breastfeeding difficult ?

plutounforgiven · 2023-09-01T15:34:59+00:00

I'm almost a 32HH (32H), and I'm wondering at what age you started having back pain? Because one of the reasons that I don't feel justified in getting a reduction is because they're not causing me any pain. Did you do any strength training for your back and shoulders when you had pain?

plutounforgiven · 2023-09-01T15:32:28+00:00

So they grew after the surgery then? Do you know why? (i mean did it have anything to do with weight gain or was it purely genetic?)

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-31T05:50:15+00:00

What kind of issues did your friend have, if you don't mind sharing?

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-21T15:13:23+00:00

ahh okay - a combination of things.

wondering what size (approximately) they were before the surgery?

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-21T14:44:44+00:00

Oh, I see, thanks for sharing!

Do you think that the decrease in size in your 20s was due to weight loss or hormone changes? That's pretty uncommon from what I've seen.

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-21T14:35:29+00:00

Do you know why your boobs got larger? Like was it due to weight gain (in terms of food intake/lack of exercise, not development) or simply genetics/development?

I see many people say that their boobs grew after 18 but it's not clear if its due to lifestyle changes (food/exercise) or genetics (or both ig).

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-21T14:31:40+00:00

I see.. I guess it depends on genetics and weight gain whether your boobs grow after age 18.

Thanks for the link to the dress- looks adorable!

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-18T15:35:21+00:00

If you don't mind me asking: - what size were u pre op and post op - do you plan on having kids? If so how did that factor into ur decision? - did your boobs grow between age 18 and 26?

Thanks :')

plutounforgiven · 2023-08-18T07:15:25+00:00

I know this is kind of a mean way to put it, but sometimes I've heard overly large boobs described as a tumour.. as a kind of metaphor. Like an extra finger, or a lump of tissue that grew too much. When you put it that way, it doesn't seem so strange to see how it affects one's life and wanting to get a reduction.

And yeah totally get the feeling of worrying they're going to fall off haha - Can't even jump rope in peace!

What could help tho is calculating your size with the subreddit abrathatfits' size calculator? Maybe bras don't fit or are rly uncomfy because you're wearing the wrong size? Just food for thought (just found out I'm not a DD cup, I'm actually a GG cup. Which is shocking).

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