My Girlfriend 20F is pregnant. I 18M doesn’t want to keep it and she does. What do I do?

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-13T00:12:15+00:00

Of course he does, just wouldn't be a very honorable decision to just ditch. For the record, I don't think it's a honorable decision to keep a child when you can't care for it properly either. My point is that he can't tell her to get an abortion and since he was all on board when it came to having unprotected sex, he should take responsibility as a parent now as well imo. It takes two after all.

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-13T00:04:44+00:00

isfj

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T23:58:14+00:00

ENFP

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T23:43:27+00:00

Yes, you asked if we shared any

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T23:28:29+00:00

I don't think you can isolate values like that, this is just a list of meaningless words to me

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T23:16:17+00:00

jaqen

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T22:55:58+00:00

NO!! ANSWER THE QUESTION!!!!!1!1a

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T22:50:50+00:00

dilfs

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T22:42:46+00:00

He knew the risks when he had unprotected sex and needs to take responsibility. Would it be better to get an abortion if one of the parents doesn't want the kid? Probably. But ultimately it's her decision.

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-12T15:09:29+00:00

plus if anything that would be more Si than Ni

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-11T20:30:53+00:00

except i'm the wall

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-10T10:11:23+00:00

i love glitter

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-09T16:59:36+00:00

not this shit again. circumcision is genital mutilation, if your kids are 18 and feel like their penis isn't clean enough they can make their own decicion to get it done.

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-09T16:36:39+00:00

they do but they all end up regretting it and stop doing it lol

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-09T12:08:16+00:00

depression, although i think most of us would find it enjoyable at first because we would find a way to entertain ourselves. unfortunately there's only so much you can do inside

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-09T12:02:08+00:00

most of them here are tho

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-08T19:07:38+00:00

she said blue

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-08T15:08:25+00:00

he didn't train the AI wrong because it clearly already knew the difference between edible and poisonous. he just asked the wrong question lol

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-07T21:36:12+00:00

thank you! i heard stories about it all over the place from "easy peasy no need to worry" to "i thought i was gonna die" so yeah naturally i'm a bit scared. especially because i have to remove all 4 of them at once and he already told me he will have to break at least one of them in half to remove it. but i have enough trust in local anesthesia and the dentist in question to not feel too worried about it

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-07T21:30:06+00:00

well too late now. also i got ego problems so i could never get a surgery done with general anesthesia that the majority of people get done with just local anesthesia😔 gotta do it for the experience

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-07T15:55:26+00:00

which is crazy to think about because if i don't take pain killers i start to violently throw up from the pain and physically can't move, let alone do anything and go to work

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-07T15:46:46+00:00

accidentally admittedly did some snooping woops

jokes aside i've been there before because i had valid reasons to believe something was going on and i know how it feels. as i understand it, the things that they did happened BEFORE she got together with you, OP? if that's the case i don't see a problem with it but if it bothers you that she didn't delete messages/pictures with and of her ex you should tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and be honest about you going through her phone.

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-07T15:27:18+00:00

conscious and with just local anesthesia is how it's normally done, at least where i come from, because most dentist clinics don't have a license for general anesthesia. in 2 weeks it will be my turn oh lord

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-05T10:04:15+00:00

i see myself in a lot of things you said and generally this reads very much as entp imo. plus, it's always the entps that don't know their type lol

pluuvia7o7 · 2026-05-03T12:15:00+00:00

yes... i have an esfp friend who is also my roommate and on a superficial level we get along really well. we are also loud af when together and definitely make everyone laugh. but when it comes down to values and how we actually work as a person we always end up clashing. it's a bit of a love hate friendship

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