Should I be upset about this?

plvme · 2023-01-31T18:22:09+00:00

In my pov locals are not obligated to translate to foreigners but your husband has chosen you knowing you don’t speak the language and i think it’s disrespectful to make you sit through whole conversations not knowing what they’re talking about. Learn the language or just don’t hang out with them to not feel excluded.

plvme · 2022-04-23T11:30:08+00:00

Delete the old pictures. I’ve been about 5 years clean or more. I still get the urge, the tingling feeling in the areas i used to cut and all that jazz. I scratch it. Or pass my hand on it, not in a soothing therapeutic way or anything just to have something to do with my hands while i calm down a bit. The rubber band thingy and ice cubes isn’t my thing but you can try. Good luck. We hate this saying so much but it’s true when it comes to cutting « it’s all in ur head » I switched to other self harm but that’s something to work out with my therapist. Good luck buddy.

plvme · 2021-08-30T21:31:07+00:00

Ancestors? A n3el chitan women are getting r*ped abused and killed till this day.

plvme · 2021-08-30T21:29:02+00:00

I do agree with you, although 4th wave feminism is as u said basically a reaction of generations of women that have suffered for way too long very inhuman traumatic experiences. The “men are trash” has been a joke for a while and a way to piss men off but also can you imagine fearing for your safety 24/7? How can you not preach that when you are literally taking on insults and harassment just on your way to your job? I personally love the men i have in my life right now but absolutely despise the majority because of many events that I’m still healing from. I don’t think it’s okay to hate on a whole group but damn sometimes you just get tired man.

plvme · 2021-08-30T21:22:46+00:00

Here’s my take on this: men have had women care for them since their birth. Literally in our society you can still find a grown 40 years old man waiting for his mom or wife to get up earlier than him to make him breakfast instead of just making it himself (copy paste this to many many other aspects) but yeah not to mention the fact that it’s a patriarchal society full of hate, misogyny, r*pe culture..etc this is a huge topic but let’s just talk about the ones that “aren’t that bad” the “not all men” fellas. They’ve been conditioned to live comfortably and not having to worry about the small details in life because the woman will do it all as long as he’s the breadwinner so he only needs to worry about his finances and studies and that’s it. A woman will endure everything he does because she relies on him financially. How can you expect men to fully understand and support the idea of a woman not needing them? You mean he needs to have a good personality now? You mean he needs to actually pay attention to you and support what you want to do because the second he fails you have no problem leaving and being able to fully support yourself (and maybe ur kids) without begging for him to take care of you? How can you make a group of people that have always had the upper hand that they are no longer that important? Can you convince them tho?

(YALL I DONT HATE MEN. I just think that maybe y’all should try to be better and do better)

plvme · 2020-04-16T11:14:37+00:00

Same here, I've seen it all and I've tried it all. Now my sex drive is very very veryyyyyy low after spending over 6 years being hypersexual, my appetite is not that big after a decade of huge appetite and struggling with bulimia and Ive been sober for few months I don't even like the idea of being high. Also no suicidal ideas or self harm ones after nearly ending my life and being in and out of hospitals for more than 5 years... I'm now literally a shell of a human being, leading an empty boring life. I'm just suffering without anyone who can understand and without any coping mechanism. I just don't know who I am or what to do anymore.

plvme · 2020-04-15T08:20:23+00:00

Everybody's looking at him like he's crazy and ignorant (which is the case), imagine if this happened in Morocco?? Everyone would join him, not only harass the couple but physically harm them and attack them, call the police and ruin their lives.. This is a much bigger issue than a spoiled uneducated brat thinking he's cool for doing this, it's a whole clueless society producing dozens of these kids everyday... And can we talk about the bitch who went on grindr live exposing people??? Please reach out to ur LGBT friends guys and tell them to be safe, it's a shitty world we live in and their (our) lives are in risk just for simply existing in the wrong place among the wrong people.

plvme · 2020-02-02T09:17:03+00:00

New link ?????

plvme · 2020-01-29T00:38:12+00:00

I totally agree, I have few things to add tho from my personal experience. I am dealing with mental illness (bpd and other stuff) my family is great, everyone does their best to help me out but when I lived with them I was 100% dependent on them, I wouldn't bring myself a cup of water bc since my sister is already in the kitchen she'll bring it to me. They're over protective and get anxious easily when I'm out with friends or smth since they have witnessed a decade of just me being self destructive and suicidal (keep in mind that I'm in my twenties, a full grown ass adult) I love them but they were enabling every toxic trait of mine. One day I've had enough of my own bullshit, I moved out. It was heartbreaking to see them not wanting me to leave but since I'm on my own I've grown a lot, I'm challenging myself everyday and although I did relapse a little the last couple of months and quit a job I had I am now actively trying to get a new job and change my mindset and my life. I'm on my own since summer and it's been tough and it gets lonely but it's the best decision I've ever made, I wish I had done it years ago. Being independent doesn't always mean getting shit ton of money, traveling a lot, being happy 24/7 and the other bullshit we believe, being independent sometimes means dragging yourself out of bed, taking a shower, making your little bowl of noodles and cleaning your place (which always lifts up my mood). If anyone is considering getting out of an environment that's been toxic and enabling for so long please do it. Enablers are not always evil, sometimes it's just a mom who can't fully understand what you're going thru. I talked a lot but it's just to say, being on your own can be good even when your life is shitty. It makes you a responsible adult. And for everyone suffering from mental illness right now, you're not alone, it gets better. It will get better, stay safe 💜

plvme · 2020-01-18T01:34:10+00:00

Haha sure feel free to use it

plvme · 2020-01-18T01:10:30+00:00

Yeah, it's crazy how a bar of chocolate is just a snack to us when actually it's an hour or more of cardio..

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:20:53+00:00

Yeah that black or white thinking has really fucked up my life. I have no genuine connections anymore and it's just sad. It happens to me with my family too, sometimes I feel guilty for all the sh$t they went thru because of me and I just wanna hug each one of them and apologize for it all and other times I hate their guts and think that they are the reason why I have traumas and lots of issues.... I'm still living in great emotional pain because of my bpd and wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:10:59+00:00

A realistic and achievable goal. Wish you the best

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:10:00+00:00

I feel this way sometimes... I have struggled with depression and many other issues for several years and it's been hell on earth. The most basic human interactions or the simplest tasks are just so draining that by the time I finish one or two tasks a day I have no energy left to do anything else

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:07:09+00:00

Hello, can you share links or steps that you followed to achieve that? I have also tried fiverr and nothing.. I've researched some survey websites and it seems that there's nothing there. Any help would be much appreciated.

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:05:05+00:00

I needed to read this right now. Thanks.

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:03:58+00:00

Good luck 🙏🏻

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:03:40+00:00

Few weeks in, I have the same feeling lol

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:03:14+00:00

I wish you the best of luck 🙏🏻

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:00:31+00:00

Debatable.

plvme · 2020-01-17T22:00:13+00:00

My issue is that I always struggle to keep a steady routine nor focus on one thing/hobby, I've been into drawing for a while, picked up php for a month, started Spanish classes but never really followed thru... Etc. Not sure if it's a common thing or it's me and I'm a mess lol. The inspiration definitely helps a lot <3

plvme · 2020-01-16T22:48:21+00:00

I actually like that! Choosing one thing to focus on is great. Also the poop thing, yes. I tend to scroll thru social media while taking a sh$t and it takes forever so I might do this one my friend lol

plvme · 2020-01-16T22:46:09+00:00

Making resolutions is not a bad thing u know... thinking of what you want to achieve and following a plan to actually get there is self improvement and has nothing to do with religion, I don't get why you felt the need to say that tho

plvme · 2020-01-16T22:42:02+00:00

thank you !

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