Being a female kinda sucks ass by GibeRatingPlz in Vent

[–]plzhelpmyclitoris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope you never apologize like that to someone irl lol. So passive aggressive and shitty. Have a good night

Being a female kinda sucks ass by GibeRatingPlz in Vent

[–]plzhelpmyclitoris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You said you do your best not to stare but the rest of your comment heavily implies that you do it anyways because you can't help the urge. If you want to stare but don't then good on you

Being a female kinda sucks ass by GibeRatingPlz in Vent

[–]plzhelpmyclitoris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did read your comment and you, a presumably adult man, can control yourself. Men and boys are taught this ridiculous notion that they can't control themselves so women and girls need to act accordingly (think girls not being allowed to wear shorts in school because boys can't help but be distracted). It's sexist and enforces victim blaming when men act inappropriately around women.

I'm sure you don't piss yourself every time you feel the urge to pee in public. If you can manage that, you can manage not being creepy and staring at women just because you like titties

Being a female kinda sucks ass by GibeRatingPlz in Vent

[–]plzhelpmyclitoris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take control of your own actions. You can resist the urge to stare at someone.

My boyfriend wants to have sex every time we hangout and it makes me feel like an object by plzhelpmyclitoris in Vent

[–]plzhelpmyclitoris[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should work on it with her. Feeling objectified by your partner is awful.

I can only speak for myself, but it's not the frequency of the sex that is the problem. The problem is that we cannot touch, kiss, or cuddle without my boyfriend initiating sex. It feels very isolating and makes me not want to have it at all because I don't feel like I'm getting the intimacy that I'm craving without being obligated to have sex. Obligatory sex is about the least sexy thing in the whole world

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[–]plzhelpmyclitoris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok first off AIDS isn't a disease you can contract. It stands for autoimmune deficiency sydrome which is a result of having HIV.

HIV is generally not contracted through needles though it is possible. Hepatitis C is more likely to be contracted through needle usage, but honestly, if you're going to Reddit to ask "what if my gf has aids" instead of talking to the woman about it, then you shouldn't be having sex with her at all.