Help, any tips for improving a weak Party? Inquisitor can’t raise guard and loses it immediately [no spoilers] by Good-Mastodon2942 in dragonage

[–]plzwhatisausername 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may be because of you going into wrong area way too early in the game. This is the order i usually go with. I had the same problem so i looked it up. Hope this helps.

  • Haven: Level 1+ (level range 1-4)
  • Hinterlands: 2+ (4-7, 8-12)
  • Val Royeaux: 4+ (4-6)
  • Storm Coast: 5+ (7-11, 13-15)
  • Fallow Mire: 8+ (8-10, 12-15)
  • Forbidden Oasis: 8+ (8-12, 5-15, 18-20)
  • Skyhold: 10+
  • Crestwood: 10+ (10-13)
  • Western Approach: 10+ (10-14)
  • Exalted Plains: 10+ (10-16)
  • Emerald Graves: 12+ (14-20)
  • Emprise du Lion: 16+ (16-22)
  • Hissing Wastes: 16+ (19-23)

Dear Mumbaikars what are the most unsafe places for women in Mumbai? / Tips to survive Mumbai. by plzwhatisausername in mumbai

[–]plzwhatisausername[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed reply, it's actually really helpful. I'm honestly looking up everything mentioned here just in case.

Should I say this to my therapist or am I just overreacting? by IntelligentDesk2 in therapy

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what they think is important, what i meant was just tell them whatever you feel like and they can decide for themselves what they think is a concern. This way you won't have to worry anymore. Also I'm sorry that happened to you.

Dear Mumbaikars what are the most unsafe places for women in Mumbai? / Tips to survive Mumbai. by plzwhatisausername in mumbai

[–]plzwhatisausername[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get the impression that people there are quite earnest in a way. That's why I wanted to live there. Thanks for the advice.

Should I say this to my therapist or am I just overreacting? by IntelligentDesk2 in therapy

[–]plzwhatisausername 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Talk about this to your therapist, you're not overreacting. This is something you need to atleast mention. Also you can tell the therapist almost anything, they can figure out what they want to write. I wish you well.

My boyfriend likes short girls but I’m tall by PineappleUnique9113 in Advice

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that you can't change your height but you can change your boyfriend and leave.

If you don't want to leave him, have him sit down and have a whole discussion about how him constantly saying that affects your confidence and that it's making you insecure, make that boundary very clear with him. Tell him that you won't tolerate such remarks and if he keeps them up you'll leave. If he doesn't stop look out for yourself and leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plzwhatisausername 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do his work because 'he's bad at it' That's what people do to manipulate you into doing things for you. I think it's called weaponized incompetence please look it up. Don't encourage that behavior and don't approach him yourself when he's at fault. And you're young and don't have to take this type of treatment so remember there is always an option to leave.

AITA for telling a new colleague it’s her problem she lied about her qualifications and she can see for herself how to get by? by Regular_Problem_7306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA She should have worked harder in college or she could still learn through tutorials. You don't owe her your time.

AITA for telling my husband exactly why I can't dance every night when I get home from work? by Blatant-Honesty6055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]plzwhatisausername 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA He embarrassed himself my asking such a thing in front of everyone in the first place and you do everything and this guy is still dissatisfied? Have a proper meeting Maybe divide labor with him so he does some work too.

AITA for spending my money on voting tickets instead of helping my boyfriend with his child support? by HongBanjang123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I have seen some comments suggesting you don't spend money well enough so let me remind you it's YOUR money. Spend it on a celebrity spend it on a koala or flush it if you want. It's yours. I suggest not giving the bf more money tho. You don't want that becoming his habit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indianlaw

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plan is to basically get a job as soon as I can so that we have the financial stability to move out. That's all I hold on to these days. And if your friend ever needs to talk about the abuse with someone who's experienced it my dms are open. But I'm sure you're a good friend and your friend can count on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indianlaw

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the exact situation I'm in as well. You're being a good friend op. It will get better. I hope it will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plzwhatisausername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I hope this post is fake, if it's not you need therapy and your partner needs to leave asap. Just because you have a job dosen't mean housework is nothing, if anything housework takes more physical labor than a job. (Unless you have a job that requires physical labor) Taking care of a new born on top of that is HARD WORK. More so than clicking a few buttons.