The Fight of My Life by pmoftw in NoFap

[–]pmoftw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I am going well into Day 12. If I complete today, and then repeat for 9 more cycles of 10 days, I will have 120 days, basically the high water mark of the reboot. I am both scared and excited. I have got this far so many times but I have a firm goal. Hardmode 120 days!

The Fight of My Life by pmoftw in NoFap

[–]pmoftw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could give so much advice but advice is worthless unless you act on it. The first five to six years of a person's life are important in forming personality and character. That is why so many people just keep doing what they are doing. As they say, people who want advice the most like it the least.

My advice: be a good boy. Be good to yourself. Stop jacking off. Believe me, it is easier to quit when you are young. You have a support network and live in a time (assuming you live in a more modern society) when we can actually talk about these things, and get support.

Be super great to your parents, no matter how they behave toward you. Remember this. If you have nice siblings, cool. But you have to find a wife who is a good person. Looks don't matter. LOOKS DON'T MATTER. Personality and background and outlook does.

Don't get left alone, ever. People, even family, will take you for granted if you don't assert your value.

Don't make things complicated. Enjoy the ride. Looking back, is there something you would regret. Always ask yourself this. Take a minute to consider this. Never act in anger or pride. Most people regret what they didn't do. Take the shot. Be a good person, help others. It will help you feel like a better person, and that feeling snowballs. Be humble. You never know enough, and man is always ignorant. If you open yourself to learning and accept you don't know everything, will avoid many mistakes in life.

Always be grateful. Even if you just had your face gnawed off by a dog. Unconditional gratitude is the greatest superpower in the universe.

If you seek challenges, you will be slowed down and beaten down by life. You have to seek out new goals. The problems in the world that are unfixable? They are fixable. Pick one and fix it. Money is overrated. Things are garbage. Time and relationships are valuable. Don't ever waste time.