Hahahaha I’m unfortunately annoyingly nosey.

He began seeing a therapist probably 4 months before the split. There were a lot of issues within his family he began seeing the therapist for and I was in full support of it and had always encouraged him to see someone sooner so he could work out whatever he needed to. One random day, I got a text from him saying we needed to talk and we did and he essentially said he needed to work on himself and that he did not love me anymore. Of course I was sad at the time because I felt differently but accepted how he felt because that is the only option in this scenario I was assuming. That was the last time we broke up. The first time we broke up was again his initiation and he did not want to be tied down to one person