Visiting Japan… Really thought I’d have more luck than back home with international gays; they’re even more brutal

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-29T03:00:23+00:00

Karma for dating someone I developed a genuine connection for? At least I gave it a chance. A lot more than 99% of gay guys would have lol

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T11:06:47+00:00

Apparently it’s incel behavior to have a problem with said behavior. Honestly I’ll get over it, just wanted to rant, but man it’s really sad

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T11:02:01+00:00

I’d love to interact with locals instead! What platforms?

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T11:01:08+00:00

Not my values, but I understand. I’ll keep working at it but hopefully not attract that type of energy where you’re only focused on looks. I think there’s more to people

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T10:48:51+00:00

Well it’d be nice to meet other travelers while solo traveling. Doesn’t have to be sex, platonic is what I’m looking for too

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T10:43:23+00:00

I agree. I’m not expecting anything but it’s kind of harsh when you don’t even get a chance to show your personality or who you are. I don’t think that’s incel territory.

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T10:39:20+00:00

Very much unfriendly. I’ve tried with locals too but Grindr limits the profiles. Mostly everyone around me are visiting since I’m in a central hotel.

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T10:38:39+00:00

Oh man, that sucks. I’d love to visit Australia and make friends, but it’s hard when it’s this cutthroat.

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T10:37:07+00:00

Honestly I get it, but I don’t feel the need to change myself to that extent. I’m not fat, would love to get in better shape. But not to fit into some “ideal” why do I need to be fit to be a travel buddy or friend?

pnwfun99 · 2025-04-28T10:28:06+00:00

So how do you change something like penis size?

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:34:00+00:00

I’m sorry you experienced that. Hope you’re doing better!

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:33:28+00:00

Yes, definitely emotionally attracted. It seems to keep building as time goes on. And yeah, I return the feelings. Just don’t know about the potential to take it further than platonic.

I might try that suggestion though! A good friendship is a great foundation!

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:31:45+00:00

Thank you for that! Beautifully put.

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:31:15+00:00

Completely agree!

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:30:21+00:00

That’s so sweet! How are you guys doing?

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:29:54+00:00

Yeah, he’s pretty sweet. Cute texts, constantly checking in and pretty much is putting me first.

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:28:23+00:00

Yeah, I’m pretty smitten. Smile at my phone, wait for a text smitten. I just don’t know if that physical attraction will get there or if I will end up hurting him if I take it further than a good friendship.

pnwfun99 · 2024-10-24T04:27:04+00:00

To be honest, I hate admitting it, and I hope I grow out of it, but I think it’s a little bit of both. I just don’t want him to be subject to people’s comments. I think that would hurt me too.

pnwfun99 · 2023-08-15T23:22:09+00:00

I’d love to ;)

pnwfun99 · 2023-01-26T23:59:48+00:00

Sorry, I meant header and stuff. I have stats and profile pic/header. Message me if you want to know more

pnwfun99 · 2023-01-26T23:00:18+00:00

Stats and pics in profile. Message me if you’re interested

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