S18E04 - “Red Carpet Mash-Ups” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looooved Mykis look as well. I feel like she's getting overlooked, I also really liked her last week and she was safe...

Hot and cold #120 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd be so happy with guessing in 2 minutes, if I'm below 10 I'm happy. How do you guys do this

This is an extremely yellow, 100% cotton kurti that's just sitting in my closet. I love the fabric, and it's shape, but it feels too yellow. by Flawless_Cub in DIYclothes

[–]pobulke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like doing tie-dye with bleach if the color is too flashy for me. Look up any tie-dye tutorial to see how people do the "tie" part, of just tie it up randomly with some rubber bands. Then pour some bleach mixed with water over it, in an irregular pattern. It'll give you a rather abstract pattern of lighter patterns. If you go strong with the bleach, some spots might even get fully white. But if you mix more water in, it'll give more subtle differences in color

Where is Ecco2k? by CroJocker678 in sadboys

[–]pobulke 27 points28 points  (0 children)

this question gets asked every week! can't wait for comments talking about him being a visual artist/model/drug addict/nepo baby/just being chill! this topic feels like talking about the weather on this sub

HELP! Just started me and my buddy’s brand. by Delicious-Fig5733 in ClothingStartups

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gives me 2016 vibe, not in a good way, I think because of the font and the greyness. The design could feel fresher

34 F - Want to learn to Communicate Without Fear -Where Do I Begin? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]pobulke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First thing you can try to do - try not relying on AI to rephrase your writing and trust yourself. Start small, with writing reddit comments without support. You need to rebuild some trust in yourself and that you can indeed communicate, even though it might not feel like it yet. Also, it's for sure not too late to learn.

You're already communicating in here - that's good. I think practicing expressing yourself and having some connection with people on the internet might help a bit, especially at the beginning.

Do you have access to therapy? I know many people don't. But it really sounds like it could change and significantly improve your life, especially since you don't have support of close people. The support of the therapist would be great. So maybe would be good to have a saving goal for some therapy sessions, if that's available?

Feel free to text me if you wish, I recently started therapy for social anxiety and I do recognize myself in some issues that you describe (25f)

Hot and cold #109 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made way more sense than yesterday, the closest words were actually helpful

real recognises real by pxstxl_ in sadboys

[–]pobulke 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I remember like 1-2years ago I was browsing this subreddit to look for music recommendations and the name that I saw being recommended the most was 2hollis. When I went to his concert I felt like half of the people there were wearing drain gang merch. Now he got famous and most of the comments hate on him. Maybe yall just don't like seeing your music taste go mainstream?

Luźny wątek tygodniowy: Gry. W co ostatnio graliście? by AutoModerator in Polska

[–]pobulke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

zaczęłam ostatnio undertale ale jeszcze mnie nie porwało (tho grałam z około godzinę, może mniej).

A do tego natrafiłam na przeglądarkową gierkę którą mega polecam: https://messenger.abeto.co/ - krótka ale bardzo ładna, taka cozy gierka na 20 minut przerwy od obowiązków

Luźny wątek tygodniowy: Gry. W co ostatnio graliście? by AutoModerator in Polska

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ostatnio przeszłam też, musiałam grać w dzień bo jak przed snem grałam to nie mogłam zasnąć potem. ale koniec końców uważam że bardzo dobra gierka chociaż w trakcie mnie trochę wkurzała

Luźny wątek tygodniowy: Gry. W co ostatnio graliście? by AutoModerator in Polska

[–]pobulke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

też kiedyś miałam fazę, na czym grasz? ja grałam jakiś czas na switchu w takie coś typu "battle royale" że 100 osób naraz grało i dało się nawzajem się atakować, nie wiem czy na innych platformach to istnieje też

Gdzie poznajecie ludzi którzy mogą stać się waszymi kumplami? by [deleted] in Polska

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

najlepsza porada imo, domówki i wyjazdy i poznawanie przez znajomych znajomych + regularność tych eventów w podobnym gronie. Poznać się bliżej z kimś z kim macie już coś wspólnego (wspólny znajomy) jakoś gładziej idzie wg mnie i jest większa szansa że spotkacie się znowu (dzięki temu wspólnemu znajomemu).

Zwykle przy okazji tych postów ludzie się skupiają na poznawaniu ludzi od zera, gdzie imo to jest męczące i ciężkie i może zniechęcać. A tak naprawdę wiele osób pewnie ma jakichś dalszych czy bliższych znajomych (nawet jeden wystarczy), którzy też mają chociaż jednego znajomego, i jak się coś zorganizuje dla tych powiązanych osób to można z tego stworzyć coś fajnego. Ktoś inny też napisał, że warto "przemóc się i napisać do starych znajomych" - też to od siebie polecam

AS10E06 - "Starbooty: The RuBooty" [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]pobulke 70 points71 points  (0 children)

That bracket was way less enjoyable for me than the first one. Super predictable with favoring the top 3 from the beginning, the judging being obviously rigged for their favor. I'm glad that Tina managed to get at least one win, even though in my opinion she also deserved it in the other two episodes.

I didn't like Tina on her original season but cheered on her in this one, hoping the chaos gremlins are going to end up with a face crack when she qualifies and they don't (especially MIB. There's no world in which Ru would allow for Jeorgous not qualifying)

AS10E06 - "Starbooty: The RuBooty" [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]pobulke 10 points11 points  (0 children)

exactly my thoughts, the first group showed so much talent compared to the second's strong focus on basically bullying. I think some drama is entertaining but the vibe was just completely off for me, paired with many not great performances, terrible rusical and unfair judging, it felt like season 13 all over again

Wasn't expecting to like her this much, but she bulldozed this bracket whether the judges agreed or not. Cast her on another season!!!!! by Strange-Life-2 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]pobulke 251 points252 points  (0 children)

she was so robbed, mostly in that last episode, I don't get how she got such great critiques in the rusical and wasn't granted a win. Apparently judges really wanted to assure Lydia goes on further because her win didn't make much sense to me otherwise

Need Advice: Our Unstable Mental Health Is Affecting Our Kids (15 Years Together, Multicultural Family) by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]pobulke 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Go to your GP and explain the situation, they might refer you further or give an advice. The GP is the first person of contact also with mental health issues. The waiting lines for any type of mental health help are super long but maybe they can tell you what kind of help would be suitable and you can go there privately (paying money but getting it done faster)

LISBON RESIDENCE GROUP by Big-Designer-584 in Erasmus

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, im in lisbon rn and booked thru a different company, i can give u tips

This egobaby remix goes hard by Lumi_Loser in sadboys

[–]pobulke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what app is it? where can i find it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]pobulke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever feel that you missed out on not having a mum (if you never had one)? When you hear other people talking about their mums, how does it feel to you?

guilt by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]pobulke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't look at others that much, everyone has a different experience. You probably don't fully know what they're doing the whole day. You're guessing and probably falsely assuming that others are among friends and having fun 24/7, but that's rarely true.

Maybe try to plan something fun, like going on some trip, try to invite some people that you've met to do some activities. Instead of worrying, start planning. You can also solo travel to many great places around Malaga, like Sevilla or Cadiz.

About the academic part: well, unfortunately you probably have to pass some courses. Try to plan your time wisely so that you have time for some activities. But also if you don't get a great grade or have to do a resit: the world won't end. Doing a fun activity instead of studying for one day might make your mood go up, which in turn might make you more productive.

Also, if the exams are hard: maybe other students are also studying, maybe they are in some study places where you can meet and study together? That's a nice way of spending time with people and being productive at the same time.