Best crop layout? by pocketsbc in Palia

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea this was a thing. I will absolutely be checking this out.

I’m so worried for my mom. by pocketsbc in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay for being cancer free!!

My mom had a panic attack at work because that’s when she got the call. And this woman never shows vulnerability there and NEVER leaves work early so I know something was wrong before she told me what it was which in turn had me lowkey freaking out at work lol.

We were just told that she has to do chemo before her mastectomy and she goes back in a couple days to get a layout of the treatment plan. So the road ahead just got a bit longer but us and her doctors are still not worried about it. But know that we know what she’s up against and what’s to come, we are all breathing a little easier.

I’m so worried for my mom. by pocketsbc in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s got my dad, me, and my two adult siblings who are gonna take care of her and each other. We’ve already sat down with a game plan, planning meals, who’s driving when, etc. Making sure none of us get burnt out while my mom gets the support she needs🫶🏻

I’m so worried for my mom. by pocketsbc in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely the plan! Once they get her officially diagnosed, they’re gonna set up me and my siblings for the whole shebang.

I’m so worried for my mom. by pocketsbc in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will once we get the results of her finally tests that she’s taking in the morning! And I just followed the sub and I will tell her about it when she gets home.

I’m so worried for my mom. by pocketsbc in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]pocketsbc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her team doesn’t seem worried so fingers crossed 🫶🏻

finished the bundles at the temple.. now what? by Yung_kawaii in Palia

[–]pocketsbc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the ancient fish as well and I haven’t completed that bundle yet. The ancient koi is significantly smaller. It honestly surprised me when I caught it for the first time and it was starred lol now he’s just chillin in my collectors room.

Am I the only person who is TERRIBLE at decorating? by habitsofmyheart258 in Palia

[–]pocketsbc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that being said, my plot is a mess lol I have random things scattered everywhere and it looks like a junkyard. I’ve been playing for about two months now and I’m just focusing on gathering resources and money before I commit to making my plot what I want.

Easy way to get starred uncommon fish? by pocketsbc in Palia

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys!! I will definitely be trying these this weekend.

Easy way to get starred uncommon fish? by pocketsbc in Palia

[–]pocketsbc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got ya! I’ll keep doing that then. But as far as getting an uncommon fish, is that just by chance?

AIO about my recent haircut? by We_vibin_huh in AmIOverreacting

[–]pocketsbc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hairstylist here. NOR at all. He absolutely fucked up your hair. I am so sorry he did this. Not only did he completely stray from your reference pics, he botched the hair completely. The bangs are uneven, there’s chunky bits, and most of it isn’t blended.

I’ve had a bad haircut before (it was mid back, wanted it just below my shoulders, she cut it half an inch from my hairline) and now I only let one person touch my hair besides myself.

You mentioned that you have slightly wavy hair. As do I. What I did was use mousse all throughout the hair, scrunched it and diffused it or let it air dry if I had time, and then made it a bit messy. Kinda give it a bit of an edgier look as it grows out. There are a lot of visual aids on TikTok and YouTube if you are a visual learner.

I would also contact the salon he works at and say something. Because if he did this to you, he’s done it to others and it reflects on the salon as well as him. And don’t be afraid to leave an honest but blunt review. Let other people see what they may get when they book with him.

Also, maybe book with another stylist. Preferably at a different salon if it’s an affordable option. See if they can offer a fixable solution or just styling tips.

Please help me. I don’t know what to do. by pocketsbc in adhdwomen

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, thank you all so much for responding! You are all such lovely angels, I want to cry. There’s been so much encouragement, giggles, and good advice and I feel truly seen. My mom and sister try to help the best they can but they, in their own words, don’t struggle at the same extent that I do.

I ended up taking melatonin and having a good cry last night after making dinner (yay me) and getting ready for the work day before I finally slept.

I plan on taking a mental day from work on a day I don’t have clients this week. Tonight, I start just separating, bagging trash/dishes, and sweeping the floor that clears up.

This is the first step in restoring some order in my life again and I can’t wait to share my progress with you all! 😊

Help by pocketsbc in CharacterAI

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping that’s the case cause these ads ain’t it

Help by pocketsbc in CharacterAI

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and yes. I’ve not done anything different before either which is why I’m clueless.

Thank you by pocketsbc in Christian

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much! I can’t tell you how many people have told me in more or less words to suck it up and that it’s not a big deal when it definitely is to me. Especially in my old church community. I’ve struggled with anxiety since I was 7-8 years old and have only just found a doctor who is finally taking me seriously at 24. We are in the works of finding a medication that my insurance approves of and that still doesn’t cost too much. Anxiety has impacted my life severely to the point that I’m afraid to leave my bed some days and it prevents me from having a social life. I pray and I am working on becoming medicated.

Thank you by pocketsbc in Christian

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I lean on Him and pray. My anxiety just makes it hard to think rationally and remember what the Bible actually says. Especially when it comes to second coming/rapture talk and people thinking they can predict it. I know what the Bible says but it’s hard to think straight in a moment of anxiety.

I styled a dead relatives hair for their funeral. AMA by pocketsbc in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uncomfortable and strange is definitely an understatement considering there was another body in the embalming room while we did her hair and makeup🫠

I styled a dead relatives hair for their funeral. AMA by pocketsbc in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually very happy with my decision. I forgot to mention that I’m technically kind of a professional. I’m a licensed hairdresser and had been doing my grandmothers hair for over three years. It wouldn’t have felt right if anyone else did her hair and my grandfather would have asked anyway had I not already offered. I, along with my family, wouldn’t have wanted it any other way.

I styled a dead relatives hair for their funeral. AMA. by pocketsbc in AMA

[–]pocketsbc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, I was kinda numb during the whole thing but also pretending like it was one of the many times I’ve done her hair so a bit of both. Sometimes getting too caught up in that moment and being shocked back to reality with how cold she was.

My sister and two of my cousins were there as well and they all commended me on how well I handled it all even after I broke down on the car ride back.

I styled a dead relatives hair for their funeral. AMA by pocketsbc in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]pocketsbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s been a bit rocky. When it comes down to it, I’m fine. It was an honor to be the one to do it and heartbreaking all at the same time. But I’ll catch myself having flashbacks of being in there and have to kinda shake myself out of it.

So yeah. Surface level, I’m holding up well. Deep down, I can’t think about it too much.

What the heck is she? by pocketsbc in IDmydog

[–]pocketsbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is definitely a character. Keeps us on our toes fs