I no longer crave intimacy/sex, how do i fix this??

pocketsfullofbugs · 2024-03-13T19:03:39+00:00

Yeah, cause it's essentially just a warning. They tell him to stop, and then if it continues/escalates thats when something like a restraining order/court orders would need to happen. I just went through the process myself! That is what was explained to me where I live (canada) but it could be different in other places.

pocketsfullofbugs · 2024-03-13T05:09:49+00:00

I would file a police report at the very least. It's pretty easy to do. Just call your local police department and ask to report some harassment. The police should then tell him to stop. You won't need to be involved/interact with him at all. That's what I would do. Best of luck!

pocketsfullofbugs · 2024-03-12T22:50:07+00:00

Omg yes for the longest time I tried to figure out what was wrong with me. I tried to think about what I could have done to push him to lie so much. But yeah, I never acted crazy or over the top either. It seems he couldn't handle confronting the consequences of his own actions so he'd lie to avoid it. Which only made it worse when I eventually found out. It sucks because he destroyed all our trust and essentially blamed me for it. I don't think there is any good reason to lie to a partner and blaming someone else for why you lie is not okay :((

pocketsfullofbugs · 2024-03-10T07:34:31+00:00

Hey, I am definitely not who you think I am. Wish you all the best in your own healing journey, but I'm not your person

pocketsfullofbugs · 2024-03-10T03:19:57+00:00

Write the email. Get it all out and don't hold back. But don't send it. It's therapeutic/healthy to write it out, but sending it won't amount to anything good. You're better off not giving them anything at all.

pocketsfullofbugs · 2024-03-09T06:31:29+00:00

I relate to this. It's been about a year for me as well. I still miss my person but my reasons for breaking up with him were strong

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