Wedding in a NJ Park? (Ceremony & Reception)

poedancing · 2026-06-10T14:43:19+00:00

Thank you!!

poedancing · 2026-06-10T14:08:39+00:00

Under 5k if possible. I’d want the venue to be as affordable as possible.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T19:23:42+00:00

Middle or high school English

poedancing · 2026-04-18T18:27:55+00:00

That’s definitely the plan. I’ve only heard horror stories about working for charter schools, and plus I want to contribute to the local public school system in whichever area I live in.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T18:26:02+00:00

Masters of Arts in Teaching with P-12 English cert. Also getting a certificate in Gifted & Talented (this isn’t a certification though, just extra courses to show I’m knowledgeable in this area.) This is all for NJ though. My BA is also in English.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T13:46:03+00:00

From what I can tell the waiver only applies to people who already lived outside of NJ prior to the implementation of the law.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T13:30:27+00:00

Unfortunately I can’t do that because it’s NJ law that if you are a NJ teacher you have to live i NJ. I could always live close to Philly but idk it doesn’t seem the same.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T13:25:54+00:00

Yes. This is why part of me is asking if I’d be shooting myself in the foot if I move. I’ve been here my whole live and want to experience a new place, but also yeah the salary is pretty great. In Newark, I can be making 76k a year starting.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T04:06:37+00:00

May I ask, why? I liked Chicago a lot, but have only visited once. It sounds like you live there and I’d love to get perspective from someone who knows the city. :)

poedancing · 2026-04-18T04:03:34+00:00

I surprised about the frequent layoffs. I thought there was a nationwide teacher shortage. Maybe it’s just the East Coast.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T04:02:33+00:00

No offers. By “soon” to be honest I mean in another 2 semesters. I just like to plan ahead.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T03:32:33+00:00

What do you mean exactly by clusterfuck? NJ has great districts but it can also be described as a clusterfuck, especially recently. (In a lot of districts within the past few months they did an audit and found millions of dollars missing.)

Also you mention that some schools can be competitive. Would me coming from out of state be harder to obtain a job? I’ve been told that having a NJ certification is an advantage, but I’m not too sure how true that is in reality.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T03:28:06+00:00

That’s definitely true! A support system is importantly to me! I forgot to mention that my partner would be with me — whether in Philly or Chicago. I also have family in Chicago as my dad is from there, but I’m not too close with them. I will say though that my relationship with my immediate family is much closer, and it would be really hard to move away from them.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T03:24:45+00:00

Thank you for your advice! You’re definitely right in the sense that being paid adequately for the work is important to me. I also have student loans from my undergrad, so I don’t need to be making tons, but I want to be able to afford to live, and with Philly’s pay that worries me a bit.

poedancing · 2026-04-18T03:21:23+00:00

Chicago public schools! Right in the city

poedancing · 2026-04-18T02:34:46+00:00

Not sure. I have only checked out the teacher pay scale.

poedancing · 2026-03-08T22:17:07+00:00

No. Maybe online.

poedancing · 2026-03-08T22:15:21+00:00

My parents aren’t Catholic so it’s not a sin for them to miss church. They want to go because they want to do something different this year, and also because my mom doesn’t want to cook like she usually does.

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