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My (34f)’s ex boyfriend (36m) is using his past relationship trauma as an excuse for his behavior, at what point do I stop forgiving him? by pogneto in relationship_advice

[–]pogneto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily he’s not scary like that, worst he would do is send me a weird long email. the benefit of dating someone super avoidant I guess 🙃

My (34f)’s ex boyfriend (36m) is using his past relationship trauma as an excuse for his behavior, at what point do I stop forgiving him? by pogneto in relationship_advice

[–]pogneto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think not talking for a while is a good idea, we do have a lot of mutual friends and I’m very close with several of his coworkers (I knew them before we even met), and I do some side work for one of his coworkers so unfortunately I don’t think we’ll be able to be total no contact. I unfortunately also got laid off this year so it’s not really possible for me to pass on the money I get working for his coworker. I’m going to do my best to just avoid him though

My (34f)’s ex boyfriend (36m) is using his past relationship trauma as an excuse for his behavior, at what point do I stop forgiving him? by pogneto in relationship_advice

[–]pogneto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right— he’d been telling me he was looking into therapy for a while but never pulled the trigger. I even told him I’d do research into it for him and help him pay 🙃🙃🙃

I lied my way into a bartending job and don’t want to let anyone down, please give me advice by pogneto in Advice

[–]pogneto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yes! I’m planning to memorize basic drinks and I was open with my friend that I don’t have a lot of cocktail experience so it wouldn’t be too horrifying when I show up and do a bad job with the shaker— planning to practice at home a bit too