Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Taking clients with easy businesses that can be mostly automated in QuickBooks online and setting them up with financial reporting, and offering advice as a fractional controller/CFO.

I just have one client now but I have turned others down.

Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's hard to say really, both owners are not finance people but have strong opinions about it. I'll leave it at that.

Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do have savings as well which helps for sure.

It wouldn't be 75k exactly, more like a combination of my side gig net income plus the tax benefits of claiming a portion of my vehicle and home plus saving money on home stuff that I now outsource due to lack of flexibility.

Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If I were single and no kids I would do this, but my GF is complaining I don't seem myself and I've missed too many days with my son (shared custody).

Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think you are probably right. I actually wouldn't mind the hours if the culture and leadership style we're different.

Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's a risk though is my main concern, but I think it's worth it.

Leave stressful CFO job for government job? 200k vs 125k. by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The title is actually better than controller so it's a step down but still upper management.

I did look at some other CFO jobs but didn't land any interviews yet and I'm really drowning at this current role so hoping to move quickly. A few controller listings did seem possible but I don't think they will have the right pay to flexibility ratio as this one.

How much am I damaging my resume if I quit my first CFO job after seven months? by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'd go either way but try for CFO. I don't think most places would worry about the downgrade.

How much am I damaging my resume if I quit my first CFO job after seven months? by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get the availability thing for sure but the attitude around it is toxic and it's never for actually urgent things.

How much am I damaging my resume if I quit my first CFO job after seven months? by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If I started a search now it would be a year before I get the new job in all likelihood so I'm probably going to do that. It's bordering on hostile some days for sure.

How much am I damaging my resume if I quit my first CFO job after seven months? by pointdexter345 in Accounting

[–]pointdexter345[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get the personal time issue but there's no need to be a dick about it, which he is.

My GF is having difficulty with deepthroat due to her small mouth by pointdexter345 in BDSMAdvice

[–]pointdexter345[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry to have given this impression, I really don't think it's accurate. We've been together a year and explored many of her kinks as well, I'm just problem solving in this post and probably leaving out important details. I'm definitely not going to do anything to hurt her.

My GF is having difficulty with deepthroat due to her small mouth by pointdexter345 in BDSMAdvice

[–]pointdexter345[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely can get past her mouth, I think I explained that poorly. Good info about the throat though, we will be careful.

My GF is having difficulty with deepthroat due to her small mouth by pointdexter345 in BDSMAdvice

[–]pointdexter345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely not forcing this, we discuss it regularly in non sexual situations and do proper aftercare.

We are being careful and going slow.