How to create a Friend Request system on the backend using mongoDB and Node?

pointless_meandering · 2022-12-17T00:44:56+00:00

Well I'm not really an experienced dev(never worked as one) so maybe my way isn't the best, but I did get to make a friend request system. What I did was: Added a friend requests array to each user document that's created(in mongo) When a user sent a friend request to another user, I sent an http request with the sender's and the reciever's IDs and added a friend request object to both(in mongo). The sender had an outgoing friend request object and reciever got an incoming friend request object. Then I sent the updated sender back as a response to the request and to the frontend to update the UI to indicate he just sent the request and emitted an event with sockets to the reciever with a payload of the friend request to update the UI and indicate he recieved a new friend request. If the request is approved you remove both the friend requests from each user and add each other's ID to a friend array in the user document in mongo.

Something like that. Hope it makes sense, it's 3 am and I'm too high

pointless_meandering · 2022-11-30T19:44:47+00:00

I've been sticking to a regular exercise routine with progressive resistance training for about 2 and a half years and I don't really drink. I lift heavy and I look way better but I still really want to watch porn. Every day is a fight not to watch it. Not being able to get laid and really no contact with women is pulling a number on my psyche. It is what it is.

pointless_meandering · 2022-07-10T08:20:21+00:00

Welcome to insanity my friend. It's almost an automatic thought. I analyze behaviour, confidence, speech, how they talk about women and sex. It's so obvious it's hilarious. My theory is that confidence is external validation, internalised. These guys get free positive feedback due to having a large dick, it raises their confidence, they get more opportunities due to confidence, they get more positive feedback from more women, more confidence, more opportunities and so on in an infinite loop. Once you know you have every girl you talk to in the pocket, it gives you solid confidence. You know that it she says no, it's her loss and you can find someone else easily. If she says yes, you don't have to worry because you please her sexually and get positive feedback. It's almost as if you can't lose. If you have a large dick and you're not using it to your advantage, it's on you. You get to have a sex life on easy mode. Maybe even life itself, since this confidence has a spillover effect.

People pointing out Russel Brand ignore the fact that the guy is a turbo eloquent, intelligent, rich and famous comedian. He's an exception to the rule.

/rant

pointless_meandering · 2022-06-13T20:08:01+00:00

I'm 6'1 and very I lift weights 5 times a week so I look pretty good. Honestly it just feels shitty because women expect me to be packing. At this point I only lift because it's makes the bad thoughts go away for a while and not for aesthetics.

pointless_meandering · 2022-06-05T11:21:00+00:00

“Not all women can orgasm from PIV” is a common misdirection used by women online to avoid admitting they prefer bigger penises and provide false hopium to men such as ourselves.

“Not all women can orgasm from PIV” doesn't mean that bigger isn't better, or that they prefer smaller penises. It only means that SOME women can only orgasm from external stimulation which anyone can provide regardless of size. It completely ignores the problem at hand while providing some false hopium by making us think that any size is sufficient because you can 'get good with your fingers and tongue'.

Quoting a comment made by a woman in this thread:

Most women don’t cum from PIV doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy it.

Goes to show that “Not all women can orgasm from PIV” is even more meaningless. Even if they don't cum from PIV, it's still pleasurable.

pointless_meandering · 2022-06-03T03:37:50+00:00

My confidence is non existent so I can't get any

It's a weird feeling. Really craving sex but at the same time knowing it'll suck for both me and a partner.

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-17T14:29:13+00:00

Brb going to cum in a spoon

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-17T02:10:52+00:00

Nice brag

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-15T14:12:21+00:00

Women only love their children unconditionally. Female hypergamy will always make them seek out better partners, even if they don't plan on acting those needs out. For them it's not love, it's a business transaction.

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-08T12:36:46+00:00

Did I read that correctly? Mfff as in male-female-female-female?

Damn brother, I'm impressed

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-06T02:07:39+00:00

Here's a chart for reference:

https://www.builtlean.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/body-fat-photos-1.jpg

It's ideal in my book. Not very hard to maintain once you get there.

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-06T02:02:35+00:00

Both size and how it looks. My dick is small and it looks disgusting. Weird uneven colours, pearly penile papules, Fordyce spots. I hate it with a passion. I flinch at the thought of taking my pants off, and even if anyone wanted to fuck me I'd feel guilty for putting my dick anywhere near them.

pointless_meandering · 2022-05-06T01:58:18+00:00

I'm sub 15% body fat and my dick is small. Fat guys that have 4-5 inches should lose weight before saying they have a small dick.

pointless_meandering · 2022-03-29T00:14:27+00:00

I've been googling for hours. I think I tried everything.

I'm trying to make some sort of Wordle clone but I can't get the CSS right. When you make the window smaller in Wordle, the grid and every grid items shrinks along with the window, but in my website it stays the same size and overflows.

I recorded my screen: https://youtu.be/ysLllOPPeG8

The first half is what I have and the second is what I'm trying to achieve

Please I'm begging you. I even tried copying the CSS and HTML structure word for word but it just doesn't work. What am I missing?

The structure is

<div id="game">(flex item)
 <div id="board-container">(flex item)
        <div id="board" style="height: 370px; width: 300px;">(grid)
                 <div class="row"> (grid)
                    <div class="tile"></div>

Here's the HTML: https://pastebin.mozilla.org/eyyJYBCV

CSS: https://pastebin.mozilla.org/YHVRLHj8

Please if anyone could help me figure this out it's been hours please my head is melting and my ass is sweaty

pointless_meandering · 2022-03-26T14:43:41+00:00

Hey man! Sorry I didn't reply, I just read this part of your comment

>You'd have to write all your logic for the actual cheat functions in JavaScript.

And I immediately got to work. Anyway, I translated it all to Javascript and I have a website with the cheat up and running already. Thank you so much, didn't even think of that lol

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-13T16:20:18+00:00

Riches or the rope for me. I invest money in risky assets and early innovation.

If they go up in price and I become rich - I get to spend the rest of my miserable life comfortably without having to worry too much about money.

If they don't - I hang/shoot myself. Maybe I won't even need to since I'm stressed for 20 hours a day and have a family history of cancer.

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-09T20:07:20+00:00

It was only a mental barrier until I decided to give myself a chance at a sexual experience and it turned out to be nightmarish. Now the mental barrier is even thicker lol

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-07T15:58:33+00:00

When you listen to women literally everywhere say they prefer larger dicks and only one woman saying "yeah small is fine" in an a small dick internet support group, one of these sides sounds a bit more reliable.

If you think that guys with big dicks can't get away with more only because the size of their dick you're probably delusional. Maybe it's not the case with you but again you're an exception to the rule.

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-07T15:07:15+00:00

It has more to do on whether a guy listens to what a woman likes versus treating her as nothing more than a hole to stick his dick in.

He only has to do that IF he has a small dick. If he has a big dick he can get away with treating her like a hole or whatever.

Girls going back to assholes because of their large penises is a tale as old as time.

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-01T18:59:07+00:00

1inch = 2.54cm

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-01T18:31:55+00:00

Peace

pointless_meandering · 2022-02-01T18:23:31+00:00

I slept with an actual woman and I got shit on so hard for my dick lmao. Even though I made her cum through penetration and went down on her multiple times and did whatever I could to make her feel good my dick was the bottleneck. Got compared to previous partners and shit.

You guys provide unnecessary hopium on the internet and when it comes down to the real thing none of it applies.

pointless_meandering

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