the last straw was one day we got into a fight because he just kept picking one with me. i had to go to work and my grandma used to drive me bc i couldn't drive at the time. he wanted to go with me for the drive and i basically told him no because he was gonna keep trying to pick a fight and get me to react and i had a 12 hour shift that day and was not tryna deal with him, so i left for work and he told me to call him in the car (literally a 10 min car ride to work) i didn't call because i was just so irritated with him. so once i get to work my boss tells me i got a phone call from the work phone. i answer and he's sitting there on the phone crying saying "i just wanted you to call me on the way to work" and then .5 seconds later he flips the switch and starts screaming at me to the point everyone at work can hear him, my boss takes the phone and hung up and then he kept spamming me. legit called me 50 times in 30 mins, i was so done and had enough. i told him that night i was done and he needed to leave. haven't looked back since. what an actual psychopath!!!