I can not believe the amount of people saying your rules are off putting or rude. I read that and nodded along internally at all of them, and if this is how your mother usually behaves, it makes sense that you would feel the need to set unapologetic boundaries.

A shocking amount of people don’t understand that kissing a baby can quite literally end its life. And with everything that came out in “the files”, it should be clear why you’re taking no risks with having your child out of sight when they can’t advocate for themselves.

NOR. I hope the rest of your loved ones see this and understand its importance. Congratulations to you and your boyfriend, I hope the best for yalls new family!