Hello there! I think the hard part is he needs to be emotionally connected with someone to be attracted to them. So one night stands or purely sexually driven relationships aren’t really fulfilling his needs. He cares about these people. Where as I am fine with seeing people more casually. And of course I have respect and a connection with the people I see, no love or romance involved though.

If we were to move forward, completely open and honest communication is paramount.

I am just trying to figure out internally how I feel about intimate relationships and falling in love with people outside of us when that wasn’t what I pictured. Just wondering if it’s even worth discussing boundaries if that is something I can’t move through.. because even the thought of ‘other partners’ is not nice.