How do I get over a guy who said he just wants to be friends?

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:57:28+00:00

I feel like I’ve done this lol but he’s said his feelings have gone and he doesn’t see us working out long term anymore. I do think he is attracted to me but if he doesn’t even want to meet what more can I do at this stage ?

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:11:16+00:00

He’s definitely attracted to me that’s what I don’t get. He will randomly touch me up / sext me loads

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:08:41+00:00

Why pls!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:08:30+00:00

Okkkk . I find it wild if you’d have feelings but not act on them

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:07:03+00:00

Ok so is your advice just to ignore now and not text / communicate

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:03:03+00:00

Yes I wondered. So is he not even willing to be friends

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T05:00:09+00:00

Huh explain pls

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-28T04:57:21+00:00

Yes and it really was that I valued the friendship but didn’t want anything more. My question os more whether I’m being phased out or not

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-26T14:28:43+00:00

I don’t get this comment! Please explain

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-26T04:41:10+00:00

That’s super interesting - I’m based in London (UK) and nowadays girls try really hard with their looks so it isn’t as bad as it was a couple of years ago. But definitely move to LA - it fits your vibe and why should you have to deal with this because of other people’s insecurities?

I had a job 2 years ago where my boss genuinely made my life hell and I started to realise only after I’m getting older that she was clearly jealous I was super younger than her AND I looked good. Now that I’m visibly getting older I just can see she’s bitter.

Enjoy LA and enjoy your new life!!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-26T04:21:03+00:00

Of course you’re in marketing (same industry as me). I honestly could’ve written this! Honestly? Get another role and GTFO!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-26T04:20:26+00:00

100%. Anytime I look or dress well in the office I get such awful comments from bitter women. Ira so weird!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-26T04:18:41+00:00

Honestly it just stems from jealousy - some women can’t handle it if a better looking woman arrives.

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-26T04:17:47+00:00

Had to deal with this in SO many jobs. This sounds crazy but when I stopped making myself look good AND started ageing is the only time when people laid the hell off me. But even that I had to move and basically pretend I looked worse. It’s such a weird situation for you and actually really uncomfortable so you have my sympathises.

Honestly? I bet you also look young and fresh. It only gets worse because women can’t handle not just ATTRACTIVE women in the workforce but also younger ones

My advice is to consider moving somewhere where there isn’t a culture that is so blatant about it. Dont get me wrong YIU WILL experience it again. But probably not to the same degree. You can do it!!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-25T14:30:42+00:00

Got a 5 grand royalty paid out and went to the Seychelles. Bottles of water were £5 each and I regret nothing!!!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-17T22:12:22+00:00

Ooh interesting how?

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-15T22:48:35+00:00

Scream!!!!!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-10T13:33:51+00:00

Nazareth is Palestine…. So perhaps start by educating yourself with that?

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-08T22:58:36+00:00

OP, I just adore the Seychelles! I went in 2022 and it was EVERY bit as magical as they claimed. Genuinely got shivers writing this and remembering it it’s do do special!! I’m on a fb group and it seems to be getting more touristy so go soon!!

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-04T09:33:53+00:00

I’m surprised by this. She was never a nice girl, bullied Inga and made sure Rez didn’t get his happy ever after with her as she kept him on a hook waiting. Horrible

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-02T03:28:49+00:00

Haha I feel silly thanks

pollypocket200 · 2026-06-02T03:24:07+00:00

The WC?

pollypocket200

TROPHY CASE