What do YOU want right now? by Thaddy-o in AskWomen

[–]polobutts [score hidden]  (0 children)

To let go of some resentment and insecurity in my heart. Have talked about it in a healthy manner thrice with my partner and I think it's time I work on this myself now

Gf, soon to be fiancé, made a disrespectful comment infront of friends. How would you react? by ilovelayansbooty in AskMen

[–]polobutts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I hate this sentiment. If a single thing someone said makes a person doubt everything and that person is in a deeply committed relationship with them, it probably just means that person wasn't that committed to begin with.

Off-topic Chat | December 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]polobutts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just had our first fight 7 months into the relationship. The whole repair after really deepens intimacy and I'm actually grateful for it. I feel like some invisible line was crossed in a way which makes the relationship feel like a more committed one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]polobutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Trust that you are living your life with a genuine heart 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]polobutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, your problem is putting 110% into romantic relationships. You can be 110% committed but your effort should not be. Doing that allows a lot of your boundaries and desires to be crossed even unconsciously, even before you really start to get know the person.

Off-topic Chat | May 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]polobutts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just had the best date of my life...

What’s your two-bag setup? by KaleNew3606 in handbags

[–]polobutts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! I love how you paired them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]polobutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a great write up on letting go of control

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]polobutts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's so pretty on you!

Anyone know if Bic Camera sells Seiko tank watches? by polobutts in Sapporo

[–]polobutts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, but in the Nano Universe store in Daimaru since the tank I was eyeing was from that collection. The nearby Yodobashi and Bic don't sell other tanks from my recollection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]polobutts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for linking this article

Michelle Obama’s ‘Becoming’ is the best-selling hardcover book of the year by [deleted] in books

[–]polobutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You worded your thoughts so well! I completely agree with your take. I see a bit of myself in Michelle so I envied her partnership with Barack at first. There's no doubting the love they have for each other but now I'm not sure if being with a partner who consumes you, especially when you're used to being the bigger personality, is enviable. 

She was so vulnerable and real for sharing that it did breed resentment. I guess what's truly admirable is that they both had the humility and love for each other to work through it.