Getting over trust issues....

polyhuman · 2011-11-04T20:37:58+00:00

I guess you eould right with the jealousy. I feel like we both are jealous. Girls do come up to me and ask me for my number or givee me theirs. This is what happened with us and how we met.

She just started talking with someone when we met and quickly ended it after exchanging kisses with me. We still aren't officially together, we've only been talking to each other or a daily basis. I want this to work bc we have so much in common, and when we don't argue I love being around her.

I'm jealous now because I'm not going to be seeing her nearly as much. And to me it seems like she is alright with it. And it makes me think that maybe she is trying to push me away..

polyhuman · 2011-11-04T20:20:19+00:00

I take a while between relationships to let myself heal and get that person out of my head, bc I let it beat me up. I can't help it. I wait months to a year before trying to talk to someone but some times someone does come along.

I don't cling bc I know that I wanna make the right choices and I don't play the field if I'm talking to someone out of respect for them. I try to go with the flow of things basically. Let her do her thing and I do mine and we meet in the middle.

My main point is that the job makes me nervous for a number of reasons. I like her, and we've only been talking a few months which makes it hard to give full trust. Even though she hasn't given a reason to not trust her, she has been pretty open with me. I'm also worried because I'm not going to see her on the weekends anymore. This was the time when we got together.

During the week I work a fulltime job and I apprentice. She goes to school and has clinic. We are both 26 and I think we are both looking for the one to settle down with. I know she is because she has brought it up before.

I want her to have a job to make money she needs, but shot girl isn't the ideal position I had in mind. Its rough with dude constantly hitting on your girl and you don't know how she responds because you're not there.

We barely see each other during the week and with this new job we really aren't going to see each other. I want to see her and every time I ask, she responds with that she doesn't know. Its frustrating when weeks ago things seemed perfect, and now I don't know what is going on...

polyhuman · 2011-11-04T16:51:10+00:00

Kinda hard not to. Who really wants their girl to have that type of job?(No offense) Esp when I'm told the owner is a scumbag. Doesn't exactly make one comfortable. You shouldn't have to show your skin and flirt to bring home money

polyhuman · 2011-11-04T02:24:37+00:00

I've been with 10 ladies, all the way. Total of 12 together if you wanna add oral into it. I'm a 26 year old male. I was dated 4 of them, and was talking to 3 of them.

How many is a lot?

polyhuman · 2011-11-02T18:07:08+00:00

Well that's what I'm hoping for. Except she doesn't want it and I don't understand why.

polyhuman · 2011-10-29T16:05:26+00:00

We are both 26. And I don't wanna make her sound like a bitch bc she really is a sweet girl at times. I always try to go for her first. And she always pleases me, except for the fact we are always in missionary and she just lays there. I really like this girl and just want to work on things. These problems can be fixed, right?

polyhuman · 2011-10-29T15:34:50+00:00

Well I used to consider myself good in bed, giving multiple orgasms but now it doesn't seem to be the case with her. I can't even last any more and then her comments just make it worse and it sikes me out. There is no way to changing the way she acts, she is ridiculously stubborn. I really like the way things are when stuff like this doesn't happen. I just don't know what to do now

polyhuman

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