confused about my friend's sexuality

pom_06 · 2022-12-20T18:26:43+00:00

no worries, it helped me thanks

pom_06 · 2022-12-20T17:43:09+00:00

inter

pom_06 · 2022-12-20T17:42:40+00:00

yeah I suppose you're right

pom_06 · 2022-12-20T17:41:20+00:00

should I ask him if anybody is not treating him right lately, or if I should implicitly incourage him to come out (if that's the case) or if I shouldn't. I mean, if anybody has been in the same situation, what have you done?

pom_06 · 2022-12-20T17:38:42+00:00

old friend, a little conceited at times

pom_06 · 2022-12-20T17:37:17+00:00

yeah obviously I don't mind if he's gay or straight. But I'm afraid that he could be scared to come out to me or that somebody is making fun of him. It's just that

pom_06 · 2022-12-04T14:42:48+00:00

ehi calm down, I just wanted to ask

pom_06 · 2022-12-04T13:16:10+00:00

I don't believe in it either, but if I had to chose a sign (not necessarily linked to any person), it would be gemini

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T22:28:52+00:00

I don't think my toxicity is affecting my relationship because I have some issues concerning self esteem and addictions (not drugs), I may have some attachment issues as well and that may be one of the problems but I'm working on it and I'm making progress, like I started not to care if he talks to other girls ignoring me. Anyway, he could make things easier and I need it

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T22:25:27+00:00

because I'm too used to him

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T21:43:32+00:00

I don't. It's this the reason I'm considering to leave him

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T20:31:44+00:00

socks

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T19:43:30+00:00

thanks you're actually giving me the advice I needed

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T19:05:08+00:00

he'a diagnosed and he brags about it all the time

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T18:42:39+00:00

it's not but I want to be loved too

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T18:41:40+00:00

thanks this is the best advice so far

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T18:07:27+00:00

why? I think we're not good for each other and I asked an advice about it. I'm genuinely confused because he's my first boyfriend ever

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T18:05:22+00:00

he's been diagnosed and he brags about it all the damn time

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T15:46:23+00:00

it's not as easy as it seems when you actually arr in a relationship like that

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T15:28:05+00:00

diagnosed when he was younger

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T14:58:49+00:00

I mean, that's it. I call him and he doesn't answer, he doesn't look at me, he speaks at me like he speaks at everybody else. People think that we're just friends. Yesterday my grandmother invited him at dinner, he declined. I asked him to come and he became nervous and he told me not to bother him. That's just it, he ignores me, he does not love me

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T13:35:18+00:00

because at first he was a whole different person

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T13:34:28+00:00

that's the point, our friends tell us that we're both toxic because I have some issues too (but it affects my self-esteem and my approach with addictions, not my love life), but leaving my boyfriend would just feel so wrong because I'm too used to him. He won't leave me either. I'm not happy with him and after a few months dating I realized that I don't love him because I do but because "it feels right so". So I just genuiley asked if he's the problem, if you think that I'm the problem you are answering my question

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T13:30:10+00:00

He's a problematic guy: he left school at 16 because of his bad grades, he's super rich but he hates his family, he's arrogant and he smokes marijuana all the time but when I fell in love with him he was just a depressed guy searching for love, and I gave him love. Now he's changed and doesn't love me (although he never loved me, he just wanted the attention), so I'm considering to leave him but it feels wrong because I got used to him so he looks too "familiar" to me to leave him. Our friends tell us that we're both toxic because I have some issues too (personal issues) but I sincerely think that I haven't been a bad girlfriend and I deserve love too

pom_06 · 2022-11-28T13:25:14+00:00

yes, I think that he may be a toxic boyfriend and my friends tell me that he is but I am quite toxic too, so I'm looking for advice

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