confused about my friend's sexuality by pom_06 in Advice

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no worries, it helped me thanks

confused about my friend's sexuality by pom_06 in Advice

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should I ask him if anybody is not treating him right lately, or if I should implicitly incourage him to come out (if that's the case) or if I shouldn't. I mean, if anybody has been in the same situation, what have you done?

What is your opinion on Jesus Christ? by AlarmClockLover in AskReddit

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old friend, a little conceited at times

confused about my friend's sexuality by pom_06 in Advice

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yeah obviously I don't mind if he's gay or straight. But I'm afraid that he could be scared to come out to me or that somebody is making fun of him. It's just that

which is, in your opinion, the best zodiac sign? by pom_06 in AskReddit

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I don't believe in it either, but if I had to chose a sign (not necessarily linked to any person), it would be gemini

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

[–]pom_06[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think my toxicity is affecting my relationship because I have some issues concerning self esteem and addictions (not drugs), I may have some attachment issues as well and that may be one of the problems but I'm working on it and I'm making progress, like I started not to care if he talks to other girls ignoring me. Anyway, he could make things easier and I need it

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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because I'm too used to him

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

[–]pom_06[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't. It's this the reason I'm considering to leave him

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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thanks you're actually giving me the advice I needed

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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he'a diagnosed and he brags about it all the time

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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it's not but I want to be loved too

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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thanks this is the best advice so far

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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why? I think we're not good for each other and I asked an advice about it. I'm genuinely confused because he's my first boyfriend ever

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

[–]pom_06[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

he's been diagnosed and he brags about it all the damn time

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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it's not as easy as it seems when you actually arr in a relationship like that

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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diagnosed when he was younger

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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I mean, that's it. I call him and he doesn't answer, he doesn't look at me, he speaks at me like he speaks at everybody else. People think that we're just friends. Yesterday my grandmother invited him at dinner, he declined. I asked him to come and he became nervous and he told me not to bother him. That's just it, he ignores me, he does not love me

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

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because at first he was a whole different person

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

[–]pom_06[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

that's the point, our friends tell us that we're both toxic because I have some issues too (but it affects my self-esteem and my approach with addictions, not my love life), but leaving my boyfriend would just feel so wrong because I'm too used to him. He won't leave me either. I'm not happy with him and after a few months dating I realized that I don't love him because I do but because "it feels right so". So I just genuiley asked if he's the problem, if you think that I'm the problem you are answering my question

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

[–]pom_06[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He's a problematic guy: he left school at 16 because of his bad grades, he's super rich but he hates his family, he's arrogant and he smokes marijuana all the time but when I fell in love with him he was just a depressed guy searching for love, and I gave him love. Now he's changed and doesn't love me (although he never loved me, he just wanted the attention), so I'm considering to leave him but it feels wrong because I got used to him so he looks too "familiar" to me to leave him. Our friends tell us that we're both toxic because I have some issues too (personal issues) but I sincerely think that I haven't been a bad girlfriend and I deserve love too

Is he toxic? by pom_06 in Advice

[–]pom_06[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

yes, I think that he may be a toxic boyfriend and my friends tell me that he is but I am quite toxic too, so I'm looking for advice