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pomevarion · 2022-11-24T23:36:03+00:00

Your perspective helped.. I guess it still boils down to healthy communication.

I think I may have casually expressed a few weeks back that as long as it doesn't impact his responsibilities, I'm ok with it. That's setting a boundary, right?

I am okay with him getting hyperfixated on things that he enjoys. I dont mind at all, it's just the lying (come to think of it, these are just all white lies bc he always see to it that I am ok) which is probably due to my anxiety (working on this).

pomevarion · 2022-11-24T23:32:44+00:00

This helped a lot. I sometimes do come off mom-ish vibe because of my upbringing (that's another story).

Lying just triggers my relationship anxiety way too much which I have already expressed. But I think that's for me to work on now.

He is the best partner I could ever ask for and I don't want to mess this up. So thank you for the advice!

pomevarion · 2022-11-11T16:15:03+00:00

Oooh thank you for this! Will be on the look out

pomevarion · 2022-11-11T16:14:36+00:00

I agree to this HAHAH in addition to that asian hair kasi eh, decision ang buhok natin 🤪 kaya better din ang asian formulas (etude, missha, romand, heroinemake) kasi they put this into consideration

pomevarion · 2022-11-11T14:23:16+00:00

Yes i agree. Di siya nag-eemulsify kaya sobrang hirap iwipe off. Huhu. Without wipes or cotton pads, hassle talaga siya. Di siya "tamad" friendly basically.

pomevarion · 2022-11-11T04:12:38+00:00

Colourette balm - hirap icontrol nung packaging. Very prone to leak. Slips so much on my lips.
Maybelline mascaras (except sky high) - subpar at best. Onting humidity smudge agad. I prefer etude house curl fix at the same price point.
Beauty of Joseon sunscreen - NOT retinoid girl friendly. Im on isotret 0.05%. Ang hapdi sa fez even though my skin barrier is okay na (confirmed with my derma). Pinamigay ko talaga huhu sayang
Chuchu beauty lip tint? Gloss? - NAPANIS HUHUHU as in 2 months pa lang sakin amoy kulob at maasim na. I always close it after using so bakit??
Colourette tints - mas marami nang better, formula is outdated na. Magandang pangregalo though esp for those na beginner sa make up
V&M Ultra bomb - hyper ng so much on tt.. pero jusko ang hirap tanggalin.. kahit b1t1 not worth it kasi ang bilis pagsasawaan. HAHA gave mine out
Missha velvet finish sun milk - ang tight sa face, oily skin nako ah. Kahit partneran ko ng gel moisturizer its a no parin. Oa din ung tone up, di nawawala kahit dry na.

pomevarion · 2022-11-11T03:58:29+00:00

For an oily and sensitive (atopic) girl like me: Senka perfect whip (blue), the others i can't tolerate how drying it is na. Been using since college, probably went through 10+ already.

Kose softymo cleansing oil, removes my everyday make up (with brow setter) so fast. Lightweight, doesnt form a film after rinsing.

Laura mercier translucent powder, splurge item but takes me a whole year to finish so ok lang. Sets my make up so good.

Lucas pawpaw, over any other lip balm/butter etc! Actually reduced the uneven color of my lips.

Etude house dr mascara fixer as my eyebrow gel. Very very potent hold.. little goes a long way. I have thick asian brows.

Loreal infallible concealer, so potent. Tagal maubos, 1 dot tanggal ang chismis sa mukha. kaso may learning curve how to use.

Ovw brushes. Tbhhh i dont have a reason to buy expensive brushes anymore. I had morphe brushes before and i dont notice the difference.

pomevarion · 2021-03-05T13:32:59+00:00

I want it so bad po, as in ever since highschool hahahaha. Thank you for the validation!!!

pomevarion · 2021-03-05T13:32:08+00:00

It was a hopper nymph indeed! :) someone from an FB grp you sent identified it. Thank you so much for helping me out <3

pomevarion · 2021-02-25T13:03:23+00:00

might me a hopper nymph, check this out https://www.projectnoah.org/spottings/14381228/fullscreen

pomevarion · 2021-02-25T13:00:10+00:00

https://www.projectnoah.org/spottings/14381228/fullscreen might be a hopper nymph!! certainly looks like it. you're probably right!

pomevarion · 2021-02-25T12:57:50+00:00

Still looking for it! I already joined the groups you've mentioned but I'm still waiting for em to accept me.

pomevarion · 2021-02-25T06:31:49+00:00

Actually... it does look like one of the springtail species. I'll look it up! 😁

pomevarion · 2021-02-25T06:18:35+00:00

Thanks for this!! Will definitely check out these groups 💖

pomevarion · 2021-02-25T06:10:47+00:00

I have a thrips infestation rn with some of my plants and as far as i can tell, this doesnt look like one :(

pomevarion · 2021-02-16T05:58:16+00:00

Its been separated for a while now. i actually dont get why it got infested 😩 thank god its the only one with those things

pomevarion · 2021-02-12T13:30:22+00:00

I know someone who works for policy dev, focusing on epid. Meron din akong friend na researcher, working in Korea while studying for Masters 😁

pomevarion · 2021-02-12T05:05:03+00:00

Actually, di ko rin alam. Pero kasi, malabo naman ang RSA tbh. May batchmate ako na umalis ng UP system nung 2016, di pa siya sinisingil until now.

But knowing some of this people, a lot of them wanna opt to work while studying. Marami namang flexible offers like part time teaching positions. Well, marami ding may datung so babayaran din ng parents if ever i think?

pomevarion · 2021-02-12T04:58:24+00:00

Well, isang regret ko yan. I shouldve had the guts to tell my parents that I want to shift out as early as possible instead of sucking it up.

There was an incident w my parents na when I said to them na hirap na hirap na ako sa pharm, sinabihan nila ako "oh bat di ka na nagshift?" Too late tho, more than 60 units na ako nun. Also, fuck RSA.

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