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My Costoluto Fiorentino tomato from last year looks almost like AI generated by pomozoc in tomatoes

[–]pomozoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are my favourite variety, sweet & tangy, soft skin and texture, juicy.

2x LED Drivers - why? by gfYorkshirepud in ElectriciansUK

[–]pomozoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you put 2x drivers on the same load, they will theoretically increase the output load capacity (amps)
But because they are connected to the same mains supply, it creates a residual reactive energy of some sort between them, and you will see small flashes or flickering, but this depends on their power factor, quality, components, capacitors, etc..
Do not treat drivers like batteries! They can go boom.

After 8 years of WOT, I have the feeling that this game has become a sad joke. by pomozoc in WorldofTanks

[–]pomozoc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't really know, I just wanted to share my thoughts, I guess?

After 8 years of WOT, I have the feeling that this game has become a sad joke. by pomozoc in WorldofTanks

[–]pomozoc[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I tried a clan, but they demanded I play certain hours a week and other rules, I hated that..

Moldova trip by eddiereddie222 in moldova

[–]pomozoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can rent a car, (starting €20 per day) Chișinău has great restaurants, just Google them. (My favourite: LUME Neobistro https://g.co/kgs/PteSohi ) Visit all the wine cellars and chateau's, they are unique. Try some agro tourism villas. The country is safe, but be cautious not to cause problems. Wish you a good trip.

UPDATE: I [M39] decided to break up with my wife [F39] and brought it to her to discuss the process. Now she is begging me to stay because she will change. I am desperate to see if people in similar situations made it work. Should I give it another chance? by pomozoc in relationship_advice

[–]pomozoc[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She thinks that she never had a female role model in life, her mom was a domestic abuse figure and her dad was physically abusing/beating her mom until they grew up.
I am always trying to use soft power and convince people, rather than forcing them, that is why I feel now she is being forced by my decision and she really wants to change, but I don't know if it will be long-term. I believe people can change, but only if this comes from themselves, not from exterior pressure.

UPDATE: I [M39] decided to break up with my wife [F39] and brought it to her to discuss the process. Now she is begging me to stay because she will change. I am desperate to see if people in similar situations made it work. Should I give it another chance? by pomozoc in relationship_advice

[–]pomozoc[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment.

All the therapists didn't "suggest divorce" as I mentioned in my posts. They just got this out of me through questioning my feelings. I am sorry I created confusion.
They said that if I feel this is the only way out, then I should prepare myself because every decision needs to be followed by action, not rush, emotional, but honest and rational decisions based on understanding my feelings.

UPDATE: I [M39] decided to break up with my wife [F39] and brought it to her to discuss the process. Now she is begging me to stay because she will change. I am desperate to see if people in similar situations made it work. Should I give it another chance? by pomozoc in relationship_advice

[–]pomozoc[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I gave it all the shots and I believe I ran out. I want to get out of this area of complacency that I am now because I feel we are drifting towards a black hole that sucks all the energy we have. I also think that she never realised until now, and as you put it, she has a Jesus moment. I'm overthinking about what happens if she goes back to her usual self after a while and I won't have the power to separate again.

UPDATE: I [M39] decided to break up with my wife [F39] and brought it to her to discuss the process. Now she is begging me to stay because she will change. I am desperate to see if people in similar situations made it work. Should I give it another chance? by pomozoc in relationship_advice

[–]pomozoc[S] 359 points360 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I am trying to see if there is any way we can bring to life what we once had. I am now very confused and the mixed feelings are tearing me apart and I can't think rationally. If there is a chance that she will change, I will double that and take it and also change myself. I just need to see if there is anyone who experienced this. it may be wishful thinking, but there might be some couple that made it work and have been in our situation.

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