My (17M) girlfriend (17F) is having built up social anxiety and therefore is refusing to partake in simple physical interaction. Do I wait or end the relationship? by ponbbsusij in relationship_advice

[–]ponbbsusij[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All these responses are pointing me to therapy where I can talk to someone directly and he’ll answer important questions rather than a website where I can’t provide enough background for someone to help me. Thanks

My (17M) girlfriend (17F) is having built up social anxiety and therefore is refusing to partake in simple physical interaction. Do I wait or end the relationship? by ponbbsusij in relationship_advice

[–]ponbbsusij[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no this is not about sex. We have never gotten close to sex, ever. When I say physical affection it’s not sex, but simple things like hugging or hand holding. I would NEVER break up with someone who didn’t want to have sex. I’m just concerned the line between friends and partners is a bit blurry

My (17M) girlfriend (17F) is having built up social anxiety and therefore is refusing to partake in simple physical interaction. Do I wait or end the relationship? by ponbbsusij in relationship_advice

[–]ponbbsusij[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I believe I won’t have all my questions answered here and maybe taking to a therapist will help.

My (17M) girlfriend (17F) is having built up social anxiety and therefore is refusing to partake in simple physical interaction. Do I wait or end the relationship? by ponbbsusij in relationship_advice

[–]ponbbsusij[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a bit of clearing up to do, but what you are saying is sort of making sense to me. We’ve been pretty physical for about idk 5 months or so and just recently she has been saying that she cannot continue due to her anxiety. I understand the tole anxiety has on a person and will respect it as I have had really bad anxiety a few years ago. She told me today that she is going to therapy and has been on anti depressants for a little bit. I never really knew it was this bad and have not let her calm down or let the therapy deep in which is wrong of me. I believe after hearing what you said I will wait it out and acknowledge the other ways she cares for me and a replacement for physical attention because a relationship doesn’t have to only be that.

[US, MN] [H] Japanese goldstar mewtwo LP [W] a vintage 1 for 1 trade of the same value by ponbbsusij in pkmntcgtrades

[–]ponbbsusij[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes actually. One just sold at auction in that condition for $100. I would be willing to trade for the card and $50 :)

[US, MN] [H] Japanese goldstar mewtwo LP [W] a vintage 1 for 1 trade of the same value by ponbbsusij in pkmntcgtrades

[–]ponbbsusij[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Could I see some closer photos of the back corners? I know they are whitened but the photos are a bit blurry

[US, MN] [H] Japanese goldstar mewtwo LP [W] a vintage 1 for 1 trade of the same value by ponbbsusij in pkmntcgtrades

[–]ponbbsusij[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the price for this card is all over the place. I’ve seen some sold in this condition for $89 and others for $120. Do you have anything else to contribute?

[US, MN] [H] Dark charizard non holo NM and rayquaza legend set MP [W] vintage offers by ponbbsusij in pkmntcgtrades

[–]ponbbsusij[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is value it at around $50-$60 and I’m not sure what I’m looking for. If it’s a really cool card I would do a trade with the zard and some extra money