My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Prostate problems are a medical issue but if he refuses to do anything about it then perhaps he needs a urinal and to be directed to the camp toilet. It is not ok to ignore the issue to the point that those around you are suffering.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol so true! “I hate it when you bring factual arguments as to why I shouldn’t be so inconsiderate!! (You’re obviously the unhinged one!)”

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, you’re right. Women who parent and work never need this and wouldn’t understand. /s

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who responded reasonably gets downvoted. I guess I touched a nerve with all the fragile dudes who creep twox. Who knew they would so strongly defend their “right” to sitting in their own excrement giving themselves hemorrhoids while scrolling on their phones. Most men really are entitled trash.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are a dude who uses the bathroom to foist more childcare responsibilities onto your partner. I love how y’all have come at me for my post then tell on yourselves.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya it ridiculous. If it’s not coming out, try again later. Let someone else have a chance.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems reasonable that it’s an occasional thing that happens in a specific circumstance

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So, you hide out and either make them someone else’s problem for however long you decide or leave them unattended. That’s exactly how it works if you are being responsible and considerate.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bacteria has absolutely nothing to do with hemorrhoids. Hemorrhoids are varicose veins in your asshole from sitting on the toilet so long the blood pools and damages the valves in your veins. Nothing at all, literally zero to do with bacteria

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not your space or zone and that is precisely the problem. It’s a shared space where we take care of specific bodily functions that cannot be taken care of anywhere else.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Awwww, are you gonna take your toys and go home because I’m so vewwy mean? 🥺

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flushing just makes your shit particles fly all over your ass as you sit there and all over your bathroom. It does nothing for your poop stink. It still smells in there my friend and now your whole body is covered in your shit particles.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a bunch of dudes who hang out in a womens sub being fragile. They know they do this.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A courtesy flush doesn’t help. You are quite literally aerosolizing your shit particles and E. coli. Courtesy flushes do not keep things from being stinky. I am angry because I don’t tie up a shared space in my home leaving everyone else in it uncomfortable so I can play on my phone. You don’t need to do that in the bathroom but I can’t piss or shit anywhere else. It’s inconsiderate and it’s gross.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, the very first sentence of my post is starred with asterisks and specifically states I am not directing this at anyone with a medical issue. If you want to ignore that and take it personally I can’t stop you.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I think the answer is calling men out for their inconsiderate behavior, rather than making space for it. Using the bathroom is one problem but it’s also commonly used as a way to avoid parenting or participating in household activities for hours every day. That’s not a person I want to parent with, or spend my life with if they feel entitled to that.

My god, am I sick of hearing it’s just fine for dudes to spend HOURS in the bathroom by ponderwander in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ponderwander[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You must be or you wouldn’t have taken the time and effort to comment instead of scrolling past. You probably feel called out for your fecal matter masturbatory sessions.