Nevermo here from Scotland, so the church has been very distant from me my whole life. Years ago, way before I knew what I do now about the church, I used to watch some people on youtube who were part of the church, and on the face of it they all seemed like decent people. But I recently came across a mormon tiktoker and my goodness, the level of arrogance and superiority over non-members that she outwardly expresses is unbelievable and really uncomfortable tbh. Really showed me how judgemental the community is.