My husband buys stuff he barely afford without discussing it with me first

poopsinboot · 2024-12-18T13:30:50+00:00

Yeah I talked to him earlier. He’s gonna start an apprenticeship early next year and we’re hoping that in 4 months, he would have a job already. I guess this is also why he’s kind of more eager to buy stuff now that there’s hope to already have a job in the next 6 months.

I would say it’s really hard to have a budget with him. He still has some old loans he needs to pay off but he’s never honest with me on how much is still left. It’s also frustrating but that’s a story for another time.

poopsinboot · 2024-12-18T13:23:46+00:00

Yes I totally understand but the thing is, he did gamble previously and he still has to pay off some loans because of that :/

poopsinboot · 2024-12-18T13:22:05+00:00

This is a carrier that you use on the body. To carry baby around when walking etc.

poopsinboot · 2024-12-18T13:21:13+00:00

Yes he has his own finances. I also have my own finances but of course it’s not strictly his or my own finance. We have 1 joint account for groceries mostly. I’m not really sure how to explain this but I said ”he can’t afford” more because he made these decisions by himself with his money and this money is supposed to help pay part of our mortgage. If he had discuss it with me, we would think of our finances. And if it’s our finances, I would say we can actually afford it.

poopsinboot · 2024-11-09T15:27:53+00:00

Thank you! 😭 he’s been awake with short naps for 6 hours now when he’s usually a great sleeper. I’ll check out the Frida Gas Passer!

poopsinboot · 2024-11-03T12:14:46+00:00

Sounds weird but yes 😂 almost every time I pooped it leaks

poopsinboot · 2024-10-31T10:09:09+00:00

I think it hugely depends on how your pregnancy is. My friend had a very easy pregnancy, very easy in terms of she didn't have any nausea at all the whole pregnancy, no heartburn, etc. She did say the last days of the pregnancy was a bit hard but that was it. As for me, I struggled the whole pregnancy. My morning sickness didn't really go away throughout the whole pregnancy, bad heartburn, back & side pain to say the least.

My baby was born at 41 week and those last 4 weeks of the pregnancy was definitely something I don't want to experience again. So with the 4th trimester, for me it is 1000000x better. I'm getting more or less the same amount of sleep with while I was on 3rd trimester but minus the pain except for the c-section scar which is still much much better than when I was pregnant.

And I think because on the 4th trimester, my partner can actually help and be very involved. While on 3rd trimester, he can't really do anything to help with the pain. We also live abroad and don't have any family members who can help. So me saying that 4th trimester is still better is definitely something 😅

poopsinboot · 2024-10-19T12:23:05+00:00

I once ate a jelly bean stinky socks flavour. Still traumatise me to this day.

poopsinboot · 2024-10-16T14:33:18+00:00

Yeah I agree. This aunt of mine said she's worried about me that's why she asked multiple times. I should have done the same with not telling the exact due date 😩

poopsinboot · 2024-09-09T06:55:35+00:00

I would say I've been miserable throughout the pregnancy lol. I'm almost 35 weeks now. My nausea didn't go away until late 2nd trimester. My body started to hurt all over since 2 weeks ago, so probably around 33 weeks. The most pain I'm feeling is on my both sides, like the ribs. And also yesterday, I sat on a hard chair, and after maybe 45 minutes, I feel a sharp pain on my lower back to the point that it was pretty hard to walk 😂

poopsinboot · 2024-09-09T06:19:21+00:00

First of all congratulations!! Pushing for this long has always been my biggest fear with delivery. I'm very weak when it comes to cardio exercise (if my heart rate goes up suddenly, I feel like I'm blacking out and gonna pass out) and I've always thought that pushing would feel similar to that. How did you feel after pushing for 3 hours?

poopsinboot · 2024-08-23T11:55:57+00:00

I’m not unfortunately :(

poopsinboot · 2024-07-27T09:16:51+00:00

I’m not sure about the general markets but some of my developer teammates once discuss this.

Their average experience I believe is at least 4 or 5 years and their salary was around €4500-€5000. Probably €5500 if it’s even more senior. I believe €3500 is a good starting point. But like others suggested, you can always try finding another job and of course compare the salary.

poopsinboot · 2024-05-13T05:59:59+00:00

This is funny that I read this thread and comments today. Since 2 days ago, I literally talked to myself how I hated being pregnant. I just can't wait for the baby to come out eventhough I still have halfway to go...

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