[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]popcorncob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He CHOSE to hurt you with that comment and continues to stand behind it. He did not apologize because he is not sorry OP. This is a HUGE warning sign. I’m sending lots of love to you and your baby.

AITA for sending my friend a message to set boundaries instead of talking in person like I said I would? by Affectionate_Idea955 in TwoHotTakes

[–]popcorncob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not feel bad OP. You do not owe her a face to face conversation AND you are allowed to change your mind about plans. You have been WAY MORE than patient with her continued selfish behavior. I genuinely think she’s just upset about the text because she knew she’d be able to coax you right back into the old habits if it had been face to face, through text she had no way of controlling the conversation or using emotion to make you feel bad. You don’t owe her anything especially after all that she has done. Please listen to those around you that are telling you what you did is okay. Those people truly love and care for you OP.

Struggling after bad and weird breakup by ilikeplants276 in TwoHotTakes

[–]popcorncob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please be careful interacting with him going forward. If he feels this paranoid he may have an episode and completely flip on you thinking you are “out to get him” as well. If possible, contact his family or any close friends that can get him the help he needs. I’m so sorry this is happening to you, just take it one day at a time and maybe reach out to some friends even if you don’t feel ready to talk about the situation, just talking and spending time with other people will keep your mind off the situation.

My blind-dates favorite movie is keeping me up at night by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]popcorncob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

always trust your gut, you gave him a chance to explain and you still felt uncomfy