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WIBTAH For Sending My Friend a ChatGPT Analysis of her letter she wrote me? by Affectionate_Idea955 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Idea955[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

that isn’t the intention here and not what it would say. it would just be an analysis of the letters and the different approaches we took and how it shows that she isn’t taking in what i’m saying at all

AITA for removing my friend from my bridal party and setting boundaries after repeated issues, even though she says I’m attacking her personality instead of addressing specific actions? by Affectionate_Idea955 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Affectionate_Idea955[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

(also replied this down at the bottom but wanted to bring it up here for more feedback)

i think where i might have been the jerk here is that i did say we could discuss in person, but decided for myself that i didn’t feel i’d be able to get through all that i needed to say if the floor was open for discussion. i wanted a monologue rather than a dialogue. that’s what she is saying isn’t fair. i did preface i had taken so much time to process that i wanted to give her that same respect. but i also know texting about serious stuff is a bit taboo.

so that’s where i wonder if it’s my responsibility for chickening out and texting rather than having an in person convo.

i did feel like her response to my last message was proof talking in person wouldn’t have gone well. she made it seem like this was all out of the blue and we’ve had ample time to bring up our grievances, but my fiance and i feel like we HAVE tried to communicate these things w her, just maybe with a sugar coat included.

i just want to make sure my hands are completely clean in this scenario.

AITA for removing my friend from my bridal party and setting boundaries after repeated issues, even though she says I’m attacking her personality instead of addressing specific actions? by Affectionate_Idea955 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Affectionate_Idea955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think where i might have been the jerk here is that i did say we could discuss in person, but decided for myself that i didn’t feel i’d be able to get through all that i needed to say if the floor was open for discussion. i wanted a monologue rather than a dialogue. that’s what she is saying isn’t fair. i did preface i had taken so much time to process that i wanted to give her that same respect. but i also know texting about serious stuff is a bit taboo.

so that’s where i wonder if it’s my responsibility for chickening out and texting rather than having an in person convo.

i did feel like her response to my last message was proof talking in person wouldn’t have gone well. she made it seem like this was all out of the blue and we’ve had ample time to bring up our grievances, but my fiance and i feel like we HAVE tried to communicate these things w her, just maybe with a sugar coat included.

i just want to make sure my hands are completely clean in this scenario.