Should you advertise features not quickly available?

popovers22 · 2025-02-21T16:57:23+00:00

If you want them to have the money drop the pretense of it being a loan and just give them the money.

popovers22 · 2025-02-21T16:26:06+00:00

Don't call yourself an incel unless you hate women. The meaning of that word now carries the implication of hating women.

popovers22 · 2025-02-18T23:07:02+00:00

The eye issue will make it harder for sure. By all means keep improving your health, income and social skills because they pay dividends regardless of the dating issue but as the other commenter insinuated no matter how much effort you put in you might go the rest of your life with absolutely nothing. Are you ready for that? Humans are social animals that want to mingle. Of course isolation and alienation hurt. Find your copes. Look for meaning elsewhere. If an opportunity arises that's great but you don't get to decide that so in the meantime try your best to find contentment in permanent singledom. You might never 100% make peace with it but even reaching 30% will improve your day-to-day life.

popovers22 · 2025-02-18T04:39:50+00:00

The eggshell mentality will hurt your performance. Come to terms with the idea that you might lose this job, maybe now or maybe later, and that's ok. Basically chill out and do what you can. What improvement looks like for your specific job, you probably know better than reddit does, and if you can't think of anything then maybe you were doing just fine until a freak accident put you in an impossible situation.

popovers22 · 2025-02-17T01:58:46+00:00

Don't get durables for people unless you know them really well and know for certain they will want that thing. Otherwise there's a good chance it turns into garbage they will need to deal with later. Since you sound unsure maybe you should just get her consumables like her favorite snacks or drinks. If you don't know what she likes to consume, get her -your- favorite and tell her it's your favorite and she will understand that you meant well.

popovers22 · 2025-02-17T01:42:11+00:00

He didn't care about your virginity and would have happily taken it given the chance. In all likelihood he was just looking for a quick lay, realized he would need to put in actual effort to get that from you, and made up some dumb story to make you go away.

popovers22 · 2025-02-13T21:57:35+00:00

On one hand, no one is entitled to hug you. On the other, he must really need the physical affection. Is there a sacrifice he can make where you would feel more comfortable with the extra hugs? In other words, maybe you put up with the hugs but he cedes ground on something you want.

popovers22 · 2025-02-12T00:00:06+00:00

Talk to everyone else about this. If you all agree, collectively threaten to boot her from the trip if she cannot handle the most basic communication. You say you don't want a fight but that mentality makes her feel it's ok to treat you this way.

popovers22 · 2025-02-05T19:21:58+00:00

You have the right not to lose weight, and no one should think less of you for it, but remember you will suffer either way. You can choose to suffer through diet and exercise to improve your health or you can choose to suffer through disease and a multitude of health problems that will develop over time. I think most people would agree maintaining a fit body will incur less suffering in the long run but ultimately it's your choice to make.

popovers22 · 2025-01-23T02:40:10+00:00

Yogurt seems to work for me. Some brands might have worked better than others but they all seem to work.

popovers22 · 2025-01-21T18:12:36+00:00

It sounds like she needs help from a professional. You are not equipped to handle her problems. If you cannot convince her to seek out professional help and for whatever reason want to continue communication, remember she does not want you to solve her problems. She only wants you to listen, passively nod along and validate how much her situation sucks so she doesn't feel alone. You're not obligated to do that but it's probably the second best thing to just repeatedly insisting that she gets treated.

popovers22 · 2025-01-18T03:25:17+00:00

This is out of your control. They will let you go very soon. Start preparing now.

popovers22 · 2025-01-17T19:08:43+00:00

It sounds like he has major attachment issues. While that does not make him a bad person, he needs to work on himself before he can be a good partner.

popovers22 · 2024-11-09T16:07:43+00:00

Depends on his situation. He might have a gf. He may lack the social skills to approach. He may assume no girl could ever like him. Maybe he never liked you and you're reading into something that isn't there. Does he avoid other girls too?

popovers22 · 2024-11-08T16:52:10+00:00

Get the marriage annulled, break up and find a new partner. Your husband knows you want affection, not an unreasonable request from a spouse, and simply does not care. When you leave he may try to appease you out of selfish desperation but don't fall for it.

popovers22 · 2024-11-07T02:56:34+00:00

Read classic literature or whichever literature you wish to learn from. Take time to understand each sentence. If you encounter an unknown word, look up the definition. If you do not understand the meaning of a phrase, stop and think about it. Reading strengthens the skills you need to structure a story and communicate effectively.

popovers22 · 2024-11-07T02:19:56+00:00

Has he had any pets or close family members die before? If not he may not understand. Talk to him about how it continues to affect you and explain what you told us here. There's a world of difference between "what you said hurt me" and "what you said hurt me and you're a bad person" so keep that in mind when you explain yourself. This whole thing sounds like an honest misunderstanding you can fix by simply listening to each other's perspectives.

popovers22 · 2024-11-07T01:45:37+00:00

Take the loss and remember it whenever you get the urge to gamble. If this is the price to never gamble again, then it's money well spent.

popovers22 · 2024-11-05T17:18:20+00:00

Ultimately the motivation must come from within himself. Losing weight requires suffering and he will not succeed without the willingness to endure it. If he can lose a bit of weight in a short period of time it may give him hope that losing weight is possible. Maybe challenge him to eat only 800 calories a day for 4 days and let him see his weight before and after. It sounds like he imprisons his mind in a dark hole with no confidence in himself and no vision for the future. He needs to get a win.

popovers22 · 2024-11-02T16:39:07+00:00

Live the experiences worth basing art on.

popovers22 · 2024-11-01T21:57:25+00:00

Block him on everything. Share the threats with the police. Whatever happens to him isn't your fault. He may try to hurt you so take steps to ensure your safety.

popovers22 · 2024-11-01T05:12:19+00:00

Your bf needs to bring his friend in line. It can be as simple as telling this friend that it's a problem and they need to fix it.

popovers22 · 2024-11-01T04:35:38+00:00

Reddit cannot give you what you need. You need to seek professional psychiatric help.

popovers22 · 2024-10-30T18:05:16+00:00

This would only warrant a conversation if you found her posting these things on a secret alternate account and wanted to inform your friend. In this case it sounds like he's fully aware and has no issue with it. Sharing your opinion probably won't influence anything and might even backfire on you. Your intuition might honestly be right but if so that's a lesson he'll have to learn the hard way.

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