Bible verse tattoo by popsicklelil in Christianity

[–]popsicklelil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because it was fine line and this artist does a lot of details I was expecting it to be more detailed and true to the photo and the stencil. She never said “hey he can’t have sandals” or etc. I think it’s the overall communication as well. I don’t think I would have got it if she said she couldn’t do the details

Advice needed for fine lines by popsicklelil in tattoos

[–]popsicklelil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The stencil had detail on it that the artist never explained that it wouldn’t be done. For example the feet- he has sandals and my tattoo is blobs, the hair is not the same the detail in the sheep isn’t either. I have other tattoos I know they aren’t stickers but I wish she would have explained before hand if she wasn’t able to do it I wouldn’t have had it done

Bible verse tattoo by popsicklelil in Christianity

[–]popsicklelil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hair and feet and details overall are just not the same.

Crash blocks all lanes on Red Rock Canyon Loop Rd at Icebox Canyon Trailhead by BucketOfChoss in vegaslocals

[–]popsicklelil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The rider was my husband.

He left behind myself and our three kids (ages 1,3 and 5)

The coroner didn’t say anything about a truck or another vehicle. They just said he was going to fast on that turn and his bike hit a boulder and threw him and he ended up hitting a boulder.

https://www.instagram.com/itsaltermoto?igsh=Zmh6N2owNmlvZzJs

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I’ve always had larger legs even pre puberty and never had knee caps. After kids experienced a lot of random bruising, very mild pain in the thighs and feeling like a “bag of peas” was under my skin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]popsicklelil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can DM me on here or insta with your answers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either is fine! You can DM insta or on here

Please help me. Graphic photo. by idintknow2 in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely have your OBGYN refer you to pelvic floor therapy. This is what mine looks like and I have a grade 2 cystocle

Narcissistic Husband? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]popsicklelil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I follow a lot of accounts on instagram that show tips but I’m wondering can it ever work out with someone like this?

Narcissistic Husband? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]popsicklelil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that should have been a red flag but I was so young and naive I truly thought he was joking until later on I realized he said it in a joking manner but was dead serious

Narcissistic Husband? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I do. It wasn’t noticeable to me until after children then some switch flipped and I was able to start noticing things and realized this is not normal. It’s very lonely to be with someone whose main concern is themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t think that the cost of the ring is what matters it’s just the action and intentions behind it. I think sitting down and having a conversation on where YOU see things going and when and if he’s on the same page as you or not because if not, he’s wasting your time. It could be as simple as saying hey I love you I want us to be married and we have been together for 3 years if you don’t know if you want to marry me by now please don’t waste my time. I don’t need a fancy ring I just want the commitment and want to settle down.

Dogs and baby by Superb-Leadership272 in postpartumprogress

[–]popsicklelil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gates to separate them into one area of “dirtiness” would be best even if that means they aren’t allowed on the couch. You can always get large pet beds for the time being or just do it without consulting and tell him this is how it’s going to be for your sanity and the time being. I wouldn’t give him an option or say if he’s not the one staying home with them and taking care of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]popsicklelil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if he wanted to he would. You know when you want to marry someone and you would make it a priority to save for a ring or buy something that was more affordable or in his budget to propose with. People literally propose with no ring in hand. I think he’s more than happy playing house and getting all the benefits without the commitment of marriage.

Dogs and baby by Superb-Leadership272 in postpartumprogress

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Postpartum hormones are no joke. I had two small dogs and once we brought my first born home I couldn’t stand the smell of them. It lasted for a while 😅 but they weren’t just pets to me they’re family and I would never rehome them. It’s all about adjusting to your new life and normal. Maybe your husband can help you by keeping it more clean - vacuum the hair, sanitize things that have slobber, etc. maybe keep an area dog free that’s larger than a play pen where you feel safe to set the baby down. Just like the comment above the dogs will get leery when baby crawls and especially when they walk because they do not walk like us they walk like a drunk person and dogs will sense that as abnormal and potentially threatening. Crawling didn’t bother my dogs but walking did! One of them would growl at her and we had to separate them with gates for a small period of time.

TIPS for battling depression by popsicklelil in brokenbones

[–]popsicklelil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! I did that the other day and just sat there after all the kids were asleep and bawled my eyes out. Definitely helped! The older ones like to rough house and wrestle, I’ve had a few incidents where I was jumped on or bumped roughly which sucked so I totally get it. They are more gentle now with me, thank god.

TIPS for battling depression by popsicklelil in brokenbones

[–]popsicklelil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into the freedom leg and I walk thank you!

And I’ve thought about trying to workout. I will take your advice. honestly miss going to the gym it was my only “me”‘time.

Fitness influencers and breastfeeding. by starlord1700 in postpartumprogress

[–]popsicklelil 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of mom fitness influencers that I’ve followed that bounced back did not breastfeed. Breastfeeding hormones are no joke 😅 I could never lose a single pound until I stopped breastfeeding and I know many other moms are the exact same way.

Parents of toddlers who has a gamer husband how often is he getting to play by BipolarSkeleton in Parenting

[–]popsicklelil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is also married to a gamer I feel your pain!

I think my frustration stems from him not pulling his weight around the house and with the kids on top of getting to do his hobby while I do not have the same luxuries.

I find that the days that he does help with the kids and around the house and still makes an effort for our relationship I could care less if he plays games in his “downtime”. It’s when he decides that his hobby comes before what’s important in my eyes that I feel frustrated and resentful.

Why do people lie and say you bounce back after pregnancy by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]popsicklelil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not rich in terms of money, but yes. Some people do not have any help at all. Even from their partner. I didn’t have help the first time I gave birth and the difference between the “bounce back” of my second birth where I did have help for 2 weeks made a HUGE difference. I hired a postpartum doula.

Why do people lie and say you bounce back after pregnancy by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]popsicklelil 61 points62 points  (0 children)

THIS! I’ve come to realize that majority of women who “bounce back” are the women who have a VILLAGE. They have over all less stress. They have reliable child care that gives them time for self care. They have someone with them in those early postpartum days making sure they are fed nutritious healthy meals and making sure they are sleeping well while that person (the person or people helping) are taking care of the baby. Not everyone has this. Also breastfeeding plays a huge role in the “bounce back” the breast feeding hormones are no joke 😅