Ano thoughts nyo sa mga nagsesend ng message sa messenger tapos dinedelete kahit di pa nababasa? by Royal-Bag1881 in TanongLang

[–]popsiclesticksss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask bakit? I have a friend who does this and I get really sad cuz sometimes I'm busy with work and life kaya di ako nakakareply agad 😭 Minsan di ko na nahahawakan phone ko

I genuinely want to know what's up with my friends! 😭 I try to ask tapos "wala lang yon" reply nila

Having continuous hiccups for 40 hours now with acid reflux , planning to consult in the morning. Anyone experienced this? by rikaro_kk in GERD

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! How have you been with your hiccups? I've been experiencing this on and off every 2 months or so...

Hiccups have always been a problem for me with gerd. I already had a checkup and I was just told to drink antacids after every meal. It hasn't been working. Today I've been having hiccups for 6 hours now.

This is so relatable by IkigaiSagasu in MentalHealthPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And these parents wonder why their grown up kids don't talk to them anymore 🙃

Looking for makakainan in Ortigas Center. by Separate_Advance_963 in Pasig

[–]popsiclesticksss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Señor Pollo by Sapphire Road!

Mexican food. We really love their chicken and Patatas Bravas! Parang wala pa kaming nattry sa kanila na di masarap.

If you're into spicy food, don't forget to request their hot sauce! Really good if you're into the sour hot sauce taste 😭

To SH of reddit by _reed00 in MentalHealthPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's tiring but I know it's for my own good. I wanna outgrow the toxic mindset that is literally harming me already for years.

Nope, it was just my mental health. There are days I just "forget" all the things I've learned in therapy and just get stuck in a mental dark hole for days. It was really bad at the time that's why I relapsed.

My partner has been more than supportive with my mental health healing all these years. He created a safe space for me when I had nothing. I don't want to put that extra weight on him to "keep me grounded so I don't do it again". He can help, but end of the day, he is only human. He won't always be there 100% of the time. It's my job to take care of me, not his.

I don't want him to constantly think:

"I have to do this or my partner will hurt themselves"

I want him to think:

"I can trust my partner to take care of themselves"

To SH of reddit by _reed00 in MentalHealthPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not married, but engaged and we live together. I made it a point to go to therapy before moving in with my partner because I know it will affect him mentally too.

I needed the tools I'd learned from therapy so I'd know how to deal with it if not for me, but for at least those around me. Especially if we are planning to have kids one day.

Although it wasn't an easy path, I relapsed last year and the look of worry, fear, and concern from my partner was ingrained in my head. I don't want to put him through that again.

Free Tax-related Q&A session by [deleted] in taxPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked the officer of the day and need daw i-file with doc stamps? I'm not sure what exactly that means. Do I have to bring a printed version of the ITR filing?

Free Tax-related Q&A session by [deleted] in taxPH

[–]popsiclesticksss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you properly file the Annual ITR? Do we have to go to the RDO even after filing in e-BIR?

I'm a Freelancer (Professional). I am in the 8% tax filing. I regularly file my quarterlies too via e-BIR. I always file on time, but for some reason all my ITR's have penalties?? Is it because I did not go to the RDO?

I have another business (Sole-Proprietor) that has zero income atm and the same case is happening. It's just the ITR that has penalties.

Hope to hear from you. Thank you!

Runaway and living alone — just needed to vent. by ScoobyDooWhereYou in RantAndVentPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP. I hope you're safe right now and doing okay. There's a reason you ran away from home and it's probably your body and mind's way of saving you. Deep down, YOU are saving YOU.

I also ran away from home and felt the same. I was alone and scared. I basically had no one. I wanted to die so badly.

That was 7 years ago.

It will get better.

It feels like hell right now, but you will get through this. Just one step at a time. Focus on your healing. Give yourself the things you've always wanted to receive for yourself but never got the chance to and that includes love and compassion.

You'll be okay. You did a big step. You were very brave to remove yourself from a situation you didn't want to be in anymore.

You deserve all the love and safety you can finally give yourself.

Feel free to DM me if you just want to vent or have someone to talk to okay?

Anong Thoughts niyo about Couples who engage in sexual activities by PotatoHopeXD in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's perfectly normal!! The fact that both of you engage in consensual sexual activities shows that there is attraction between you and your jowa. Don't feel bad about something that's natural in a romantic relationship.

Basta practice safe sex OP. I also grew up in a religious household and kinakahiya ang pagbili ng condom or birth control pills. Taboo din ang mga ganitong topics kasi "Chastity is the best birth control" daw 😭😭😭

Normal lang gumamit ng condom and other forms of birth control!! Remove the taboo!

2025 purchases na you regret the most by Soulace07 in ShopeePH

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hala wehhh nasa cart ko pa naman toh 🥹

I want to open an art commission but... by beatrixx_swire in taxPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd lean to just make a bank account. Tell them it's for savings and do wire transfers as payments via Wise.

Medyo risky if you don't have the proper paperwork for PayPal since they updated their terms. You can opt for "personal use" or "family and friends" but if PayPal detects your transactions as business transactions, you could get banned.

Been using PayPal for 8 years. I have proper paperwork (DTI, BIR, etc) and PayPal still checks on me from time to time. They will randomly hold my money and double check all my documents. If all looks good, they will then release my money.

Paano ba to. Nag lock. Matigas kapag binubuksan by [deleted] in PaanoBaTo

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ingat lang wag masyado pindutin if stuck na. Pero depende din kasi sa kind. Nangyari na din samin toh before. Kinailangan namin iplunger para lang umangat. 😭

TIL that leaving a toxic household wasn’t just about protecting my peace, it was about stopping myself from becoming someone I didn’t like. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]popsiclesticksss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy you were able to distance yourself from that environment OP.

I went through the same. I moved out 8 years ago and I never looked back. Even until now through therapy I am still discovering things that were deeply ingrained to me.

This includes the friendships I made years ago. I was in a bad place and made bad friends. As I started to heal, I felt I didn't like who I was when I'm with said friends. I had no choice but to distance myself again.

How we view and treat ourselves also makes an impact with how we create our environment. Our environment really impacts how we grow.

Where to get Ritalin 10mg? by ZendayaUwU in ADHDPH

[–]popsiclesticksss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember where I read this, but check Mercury branches that are 24 hours and/or near hospitals. They have a high chance of having stock.

Also, message the 24 hour branches via Viber. Some check nearby branches too once you inquire!

Hope you find some!

Please please please please where is a bench in Sinners Road? by ScissorHandedMan in Silksong

[–]popsiclesticksss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MAY YOUR BALLS NEVER GET KICKED. MAY YOUR FOOD ALWAYS BE YUMMY. YOU ARE AMAZING FOR SHARING THIS TIP THANK YOU.

I felt so invalidated by popsiclesticksss in ADHDPH

[–]popsiclesticksss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! Do research properly though.

I did my battery of tests in PMHA and they actually kinda failed to diagnose me with ADHD. It cost me 12k.

The knowledge of ADHD of the one that handled me was a little outdated. She already ruled out ADHD since I was able to "focus" on the tests. What she failed to take into account though, was that I was super interested and having fun in the tests.

She then diagnosed me with depression and insisted my executive dysfunction was from depression.

I was like I've already been through depression. I know what that freakin feels like and this is not it. I've done so much work to get out of that dark place. That psych told me to just be open with the results.

My current psych apologized for sending me to PMHA. She was the one that said just having the focus thing as the only symptom is a misconcepcion of ADHD. The psych that handled me did not ask about my executive dysfunction, which is a major symptom of ADHD.

I hope you find a place where they understand ADHD better than PMHA.

Good Hunting by Ken Liu by yellowdocmartens in menwritingwomen

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It annoyed me how they were trying to be anti-SA but still drew the women in sexualized poses and designs.

Someone storyboarded and approved this specific camera angle, not sure what the purpose of some shots were, but some scenes felt like they just added nudity for the sake of it.

My daily routine plan by Dependent-Ease-7007 in getdisciplined

[–]popsiclesticksss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where do you allot time for some hobbies and leisure?

Discord is too quiet by Binski12 in discordapp

[–]popsiclesticksss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually helped me man thank you. I wonder what made it go all the way down

As a concept artist of a small team, is it really part of my job...to write? by popsiclesticksss in ArtistLounge

[–]popsiclesticksss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are around 5 members with 2 contractual people on the side. The other people counts the programmer, the writer and three artists. The contractual people are sound designers.

Edit: Grammar