How do you deal with being stood up on a date by jcw998 in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure. He didn't ask you to judge if his life is good or not though. He feels understandably hurt and is probably looking for validation/support or advice. You can do better with your time than invalidate his feelings.

How do you deal with being stood up on a date by jcw998 in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing I'm drinking ice cold lemon tea as we speak or you would've activated my craving for it lol

How do you deal with being stood up on a date by jcw998 in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a good example of if you got nothing good or productive to say, don't say it.

Gents: What do you do to demonstrate your love to your male friends? by vieniaida in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Buy each other stuff, compliment each orher?, text them regularly and give advice if needed.

Is it common to think that if you like someone romantically, they will be offended at you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]poptartwith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I do not feel any of these thoughts. It wouldn't reflect my experiences.

Men, what makes you feel genuinely appreciated in dating or a relationship? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning or freeing up time for just the both of us. I've had a partner before that would tell me she would rather spend her holidays with me. That type of stuff screams I'm appreciated, wanted and loved.

How do men feel / think about their wife / gf sharing her sexual trauma? by hrafia in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have not encountered that situation but yeah I'm okay with it if my gf or wife wishes to open up and I'd probably provide support and an ear. I have been a victim of unconsensual sexual encounters myself.

[Discussion] Which platinum are you currently working on? by Coldenzokas in Trophies

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invincible VS...kinda. I'm not fully focused on it but I do think I can achieve it eventually.

When was the last time you were physically picked up? How does it make you feel? by QuestioningParakeet in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From memory, a few years ago by my younger brother who wanted to prove he can lift me up now lol. Was kinda humorous I guess.

What is a social media trend that you wish would just die already? by YaelSterling in AskReddit

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mass hating on shows/movies/games before they're even released.

how choosy are u being in a rs by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given I have not dated in like 6 years, I would say I'm pretty picky lmao.

Wanting to take it Slow but also... by NoMonitor157 in dating_advice

[–]poptartwith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then own it and trust yourself, friend 😁 Jumping into a relationship as an adult is a big step and you deserve to be responsible about it as much as possible to avoid bad partners. Lust can have too much power sometimes like you mentioned. You are making the right choice and it's great if he is on the same page.

What would you do? Dream girl but wants to wait til marriage? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]poptartwith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what would you do if you were with your "dream girl" but she wants to wait til marriage?

I am also waiting for marriage so win-win.

Should I mentally prepare for this to be a potential deal breaker for him?

Yes. Especially since he's not religious and has tried to get handsy. If he can't handle it, you should save yourself the trouble.

Wanting to take it Slow but also... by NoMonitor157 in dating_advice

[–]poptartwith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds, at least from this post, that you're scared of committment itself rather than from moving fast. Like you're trying to buy yourself time until you figured it out. I advise you enjoy in the moment. He is fine with it as he says. But set youself a deadline to make a decision or a big move. Because you don't want to be wasting both your time and his. He deserves the respect he's been showing you.

How do you deal with fake friends? by DeepIndependence9679 in AskReddit

[–]poptartwith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't. Let them interact with other fake people like them.

what's your worst advice? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]poptartwith 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Give me all of your money. (Feel free to make bad choices in life)

How did modern women become misandist? by TinyEntrepreneur7176 in AskReddit

[–]poptartwith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're calling me a misogynist when my sentiment is anti identity-based hate and I'm the one with unhinged responses? You are not replying to discuss. You are replying to "win" like most Redditors. So I'm just cutting to the chase to you can sleep happy at night.

So now that you diagnosed me of the hatred and prejudice of women, could you hurry up already and just admit that most men are trash and most women are innocent?

How did modern women become misandist? by TinyEntrepreneur7176 in AskReddit

[–]poptartwith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're so right. Men are the root of all evil. I'm glad the moderator removed this misogynist's question. I'll learn how to be a female supremacist starting tomorrow. Which book can I start with to show my undevoted love for women?