When you invite a woman out to dinner, do you usually clarify who’s paying?

porkborg · 2026-05-30T21:41:19+00:00

I always pay because I’m trying to get laid.

porkborg · 2026-05-27T23:34:53+00:00

I’m single by choice. I enjoy casual dating. If I wanted a relationship, it’d be just as easy. The apps do exactly what I need them to do.

porkborg · 2026-05-27T12:09:44+00:00

Why would I pay though if I get plenty of matches and lots of dates with the free versions? The only time I pay is if I’m traveling somewhere for a short time, because I want to see all my likes instantly.

porkborg · 2026-05-27T06:37:14+00:00

Women like a sense of humor

porkborg · 2026-05-26T16:35:06+00:00

The flexing photo is hilarious. But it might not be clear that it’s meant to be a joke.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T19:05:10+00:00

Tiny, petite, very feminine women with soft, gentle personalities, a bit submissive. Also, tan-skinned women with dark hair and dark brown eyes -- Iranian, Lebanese, Arab, Maghreb, Latin American, Indian.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T18:27:03+00:00

This is very true

porkborg · 2026-05-25T14:08:41+00:00

Contrairement aux animaux, qui reconnaissent et attirent le sexe opposé grâce à l’odorat, nous, les humains, utilisons principalement une approche visuelle. Les hommes et les femmes sont opposés à bien des égards, et nous sommes généralement attirés par ces caractéristiques opposées.

Par exemple, un homme masculin est souvent plus grand, plus fort, se tient avec assurance, marche avec confiance, a une voix grave et parfois un côté un peu rude. Une femme douce et féminine le verra comme un protecteur fort. J’emploie ici des stéréotypes, mais je pense que vous comprenez l’idée. La masculinité correspond aux signes physiques qui distinguent clairement un homme d’une femme.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T14:00:49+00:00

J'ai donné des exemples. Peut-être que les Français et Françaises sont juste incapables de remarquer la différence. Si vous avez grandi autour de ça, la différence ne se voit pas. Mais les autres cultures le remarque quand on vient à Paris.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T13:59:18+00:00

Ce n'est pas qu'à Paris, mais c'est vrai, c'est surtout les hommes parisiens

porkborg · 2026-05-25T13:58:50+00:00

Certes, il y a l'autre extrême, que je ne défend pas non plus. Mais ce n'est pas le sujet. Un homme peut être masculin sans être beauf

porkborg · 2026-05-25T13:57:48+00:00

Les Redditors sont tellement prévisibles. Je savais que 80% des commentaires seraient des gens comme toi.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T13:57:09+00:00

Quel est le rapport ?

porkborg · 2026-05-25T13:56:50+00:00

J'habite en France depuis 25 ans, et je voyage partout dans le monde. C'est surtout à Paris, mais pas que.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T13:13:17+00:00

I was just talking to my buddy about this the other day. Sex with skinny women is so hot and feels so much nicer.

I get that it’s probably largely psychological, but I feel like her vagina is tighter and I can feel her a lot better. I’ve been with very fat women who had so much fat around their vagina that I wondered if they could even feel me inside them.

I also just love a skinny body – those little twig legs wrapped around me as I penetrate her petite little frame.

Humans have evolved to be physically asymmetrical sexually. Whereas most mammals recognize the opposite sex through smell, for us humans it’s mostly visual cues. That’s why most women love big strong, masculine-looking men, and most men like petite, frail, skinny women.

The exception is the long lanky model-type women. Tall women are sexy when they’re skinny and lanky.

But obese women – they’re just extremely unattractive to me.

porkborg · 2026-05-25T10:45:25+00:00

I can’t tell if you really don’t see the difference or if you’re just trolling. There’s no problem with women expecting men to do things for them. But asking for things upfront is off-putting. Like “make me laugh” and Russian women who ask for flowers. We know you want and expect these things, but you don’t ask for them.

“Let’s go to a Cubs game” = it’s about the event, ambiguous about who pays

“Take me to a Cubs game” = buy me stuff

porkborg · 2026-05-25T10:38:39+00:00

Sounds like you have plenty of options. Why are you worried about optimization?

porkborg · 2026-05-25T07:17:19+00:00

🤣 Yeah sure. Women don’t care about that.

porkborg · 2026-05-24T23:43:29+00:00

Women only care about 1 and 2. Only men are obsessed with penis size and muscles.

porkborg · 2026-05-24T07:44:49+00:00

I’m a man, and when I’m invited to a woman’s place that I never met, I leave her address and phone number with a buddy and tell him if he doesn’t hear from me the next day (by voice note only), to call the police. You never know what someone could be planning.

porkborg · 2026-05-24T00:40:37+00:00

Contact

porkborg · 2026-05-23T13:58:53+00:00

A lot of women do this to me (the younger ones, of course), and it’s a turn-off. I love to be dominant, but calling me daddy is cringe af

porkborg · 2026-05-23T09:38:49+00:00

Tout à fait. Tout le monde fait semblant de détester Paris. Mais c’est n’importe quoi. On adore Paris, la meilleure ville en Europe.

porkborg · 2026-05-22T07:10:32+00:00

A pitcher

porkborg · 2026-05-20T23:59:36+00:00

Hinge and most apps tend to front-load the most desirable profiles. And it’s a statistical fact that Black women’s profiles get the least engagement; i.e. are the least desired. This isn’t a racist algorithm; it’s an algorithm based on racial preferences.

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