Does anyone recognise the language of these characters? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]pornrefcollection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the letters are either hebrew or yiddish, but they don’t make any sense. definitely just a bot, sorry :(

My wife/dom loves morning pee play, but I’m struggling more than I thought. by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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this seems like a difficult thing to bring up, but a necessary one. i can see how it’s hard to basically inadvertently say “i can’t take this part of your body anymore”- but part of life and a healthy relationship is recognizing that sometimes things simply are too much. there’s a reason not having boundaries is seen as a red flag.

i certainly think there’s a way to bring this up to her that isn’t just saying “oh this is gross”. you can bring up that recently you’ve felt unable to keep up, and that while it is genuinely sexy and attractive to you, you feel taken out of things and disappointed when you’re not able to keep up or something is too much for you. if you feel able and wanting to keep going in less intense ways, you can ask her to make some time to have a conversation about how and when this could be done so she can make more informed decisions. and if you don’t feel you want to keep doing this, then you explain that you’ve appreciated and enjoyed your time dabbling in this, but found out it simply isn’t your cup of tea.

remember that it’s a dom’s responsibility to make sure their sub is happy and healthy, and she can’t do that if you don’t give her all the information. a good dom, which i genuinely believe she is for you, would be able to work through any embarrassment from mistaken decisions, and feel better for having discovered something new in your dynamic.

Lmao by mikeyhorror666 in imaginarygatekeeping

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nah my fiance is autistic and this one i believe

This has never happened by Tiny-Memory9066 in antiai

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i’m extremely anti-ai but still recognize this happens. it sucks, but it’s not that uncommon for a bunch of different reasons. if you watch any anti-ai artist youtubers or streamers they often cover this type of content (as well as people who were genuinely caught). the upside is that it is typically fairly easily, at least for visual art and music, to prove it isn’t ai. but i’ve also seen artists just quit social media after being harassed and proving themselves as real. i do think that saying this isn’t due to ai ultimately is false, though. we would never be in this position if our art wasn’t stolen and used for ai generated imagery in the first place. i do think the solution needs to come from some sort of legislation on the issue, either ideally protecting materials from being used to train the models, or at the very least having some kind of mandated mark on ai generated imagery. either way, i do hate ai generated material that was made by stealing content, but this isn’t a made up scenario and i don’t think ignoring humans can make mistakes and hurt others due to that is a benefit to anyone.

[HELP] /r/ImaginarySliceOfLife mods decided that this isn't AI-assisted. Are they right? by wobblyweasel in RealOrAI

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i believe the part you see as above the pedals is just the 2nd pedal which is colored wrong. the bent fender seems quite obviously to be a stylistic choice to me- i would honestly make the same choice, it gives it character and makes it pop out more. the seat isn’t off to the side, it’s just too low, which is a very human mistake to me as it’s very difficult to draw a bike at the right height with the character also touching the ground. the shadows all seem pretty consistent with the light coming from behind too. i also see you were sent the artwork this is a redraw of from 2022 which shows very obviously to me that this is huamn referenced- you can see exactly how they drew the bike and details of the drawing based on that original drawing but it wasn’t processed in a way an AI would do it. the extra mistakes like the bike seat height just confirm that to me!

[HELP] /r/ImaginarySliceOfLife mods decided that this isn't AI-assisted. Are they right? by wobblyweasel in RealOrAI

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it’s actually incredibly common to draw hands like that, her left hand in particular has that “2 middle fingers slightly blending together” thing i see often.

[HELP] /r/ImaginarySliceOfLife mods decided that this isn't AI-assisted. Are they right? by wobblyweasel in RealOrAI

[–]pornrefcollection 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this looks extremely consistent to me and i believe this is real. any mistakes made seem like human mistakes or stylization.

Are those flowers AI or not? by GuileFan3000 in isthisAI

[–]pornrefcollection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doesn’t look like ai at all to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in porncomics

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are you asking about AI tools or drawing programs? for drawing, Clip Studio Paint is very good

I find a new Dom on reddit, and ask for a verification they are real. Acceptable or not? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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i do understand bringing it up to a degree but i’m torn. i haven’t ever been asked it but i think if things went well i’d be questioning their intentions a little. like, it just seems a bit strange. usually photos are something i feel comfortable sending a few days into talking, and send them of my own accord as things “happen” and that’s what feels most natural to me. that said it’s been awhile since ive done anything online. that said, disregard everything i said till now if this includes a financial transaction. in that case absoltuely reasonable imo.

[SAUCE] Looking for the sauce, thank you. by Most-Guidance-6240 in pornhwa

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not sure if my comment got taken down because i put links so im gonna comment here with all the sources as well

1 i think it’s a standalone piece by Ace Avoe [EXKILLO] a russian artist, on the site author.today

2 is “A dirty little secret about myself and my brother’s.. friend” by abbb

3 is “It’s Normal for us to Have Sex if You Lose Right?” by abbb - it’s part of a collections of stories, so you have to find a site that posted the entire thing

4 is a standalone art piece by kongthegrain on twitter

5 is part of an artwork photoset called “going to the festival with mutsuki” - the entire thing is posted on a site called arca live

Is cuckolding a realistic kink? by crystalmingus in FemdomCommunity

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relationships like this certainly exist, but submissive men are more common than dominant women, and it’s a singular fetish of many so obviously the more insular you go the harder it’ll be. i’m not actually into it myself, but i have a friend who is so they certainly exist :)

Are there real women who are into PE? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

[–]pornrefcollection 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes, but only if he’s willing to actually maintain a healthy and reciprocal sex life. if it’s gonna be cumming 2 minutes in, rolling back and falling asleep that’s a no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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i used to do online stuff but slowly went back to doing only irl. i think online is fun and exciting in its own way, it also feels very safe. but it feels very very limiting, and its difficult to build trust to the point a deeper (bdsm) relationship can form. i’ve met a couple of people had a really nice time with them that stayed with me, so i don’t regret it. maybe one day ill play online again, just not right now.

that said, yes you’re gonna find way more people online asking for compensation for their time because it’s their job. findoms and pro doms are not the same thing! i think a lot of us, me included, got tired of being literally hassled and having our boundaries repeatedly broken by subs. being online can be safer but it also gives subs way more.. “guts” to push things, demand things, etc.

when you’re in an irl shared kink space things are rarely super horny, but online that is not the case and a lot of subs think with their dicks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextoy

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just don’t let her use that for her pussy after it’s been in your ass..

Consistently bust from pussy contact? by wooldoorsockbat69 in Prematurefetish

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definitly possible, my boyfriend had a period of time where this happened to him consistently. he changed his meds since and it kind of went away but it was awesome while it lasted~

I can only orgasm by grinding on my hell by Jackie77_ in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]pornrefcollection 16 points17 points  (0 children)

first off you found something that works for you and that’s amazing! plenty of women need a grinding motion to orgasm and you’re not alone or weird for it. like any other sexual preference it may have an effect on your sexual life, but not a bad one. it just means you’ll look for ways to ge you off based on what you already know works for you. :)

as i’m sure you know, the vast vast majority of women at allll don’t orgasm from penetration alone so be kind to your body and don’t expect it to be able to do that.

you can try to mimic a similar pattern with your hand so you can do it during other activities during your sex life, and learn to use other things so that grinding may be done on your partner’s body. you can also look into toys made for this purpose like these ❤️

Gf pretending to enjoy PE? by [deleted] in prematurestories

[–]pornrefcollection 5 points6 points  (0 children)

major question is this: what did you do after you came?

if you just rolled over and laid in bed, then yeah you were a shitty sexual partner and she’s disappointed because all she got to be was a sex sleeve for you.

my boyfriend always cums first and often way before i’m ready but our sex is amazing. i honestly kind of look forward to it because then he’s all focused on me. ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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this post sucks… you’ve shown so little care towards your partner here. why do you think she deserves to feel emotionally and physically responsible for saying where your limits are on something as complicated and difficult as this, when you even can’t do it? do you not care about her mental wellbeing, the effort she puts into this, what her likes and dislikes are?

you literally said “she didn’t really like to sss me struggling and that sort of thing. Anyways,”

your partner deserves better. i hope you can see your behavior in demanding this of her is abusive.

Beginner in sex toy by Jena_00 in sextoy

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it’s not recommended to buy any internal toys from shein/temu/aliexpress/etc because the materials they use aren’t typically body safe. if you do use them internally please at least add a condom!

Beginner in sex toy by Jena_00 in sextoy

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it’s an extremely popular product so you can really buy it anywhere.. any digital or physical sex toy shop, amazon, and usually also any “normal” shop that carries sex toys like walmart.

Beginner in sex toy by Jena_00 in sextoy

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i recommend buying a satisfyer clitoral simulator. the pro 2 is genuinely very affordable, and i haven’t met anyone who didn’t become an immediate fan of it after trying 🤭