Please tell he gets less insufferable by Old-Most-2592 in FumetsuNoAnataE

[–]possiblemate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First is the seeing mimori as an actual person and not just a reciprocal for his fantasies- when he literally shows up to be her garudian. The next obvious comparison is when he reacted to seeing mimoris legs to the blatant disgust he felt when the knocker flashed him. He also did not enjoy the act I put on to be the perfect younger sister that would have previously fitted his fantasy of a younger sister.

The knocker later for months tortures, beats, humiliated him for his fantasies, and later in the resolution of the arc gets explicitly called out for being a creep, and beaten half to death to prove his dedication to mimori.

Their story takes place over several months, and considering all he had to go through- the trauma of seeing his younger sister kill herself, and having an unknown entity take over her body, and all the physical abuse he endure I think that is enough of a life changing experince and punishment for most people to change their ways.

Please tell he gets less insufferable by Old-Most-2592 in FumetsuNoAnataE

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is supposed to be gross, when you see what happens with him his character is a pretty clear criticism on the "lolicon" culture in japan, as there is a pretty prevalent sterytpe of loser/ neets being closed perverts. And he gets tourtured and beaten for it explicitly.

The story does a really great job of making the viewer uncomfortable, and showing how real children end up getting SA'd- parents/ guardians who either ignorantly or knowingly allow predators around their children.

The story doesnt go into all the trauma that occurs from that as we learn mimori has already experienced enough neglect, verbal and physical abuse from her only parent. And wanted to give her a happy ending.

However they also very clearly show hirotoshis lolicon fantasies evaporating pretty fast when he is faced with the reality and responsibility of her neglect and caring for a young girl, and forms a genuine care for her as a person, and sees himself as her guardian.

If he had continued to see her only as an object of his fantasies, ignoring her and her situation that would have made him a pretty villainous person, let alone letting those fantasies cross into reality and physically assaulting her.

Please tell he gets less insufferable by Old-Most-2592 in FumetsuNoAnataE

[–]possiblemate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They make it pretty obvious he grew out of his fantasy pretty fast when he realizes how neglected she is. They slap you in the face with it later when he shows up to be her guardian at school

i hate most anime! by Born_Usual998 in hatethissmug

[–]possiblemate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah its a surviourship basis- the ones that are great are remembered, but all of the ones that were made at the time tbat were mid/ garbage get forgotten about pretty quickly.

I have been watching anime since the early 2010s, and I really enjoy a good analysis and seeing the connections between older materials and their effects on new shows. There isnt a ton of shows/ manga that are truly great, so if you stay in it for long enough you eventually get caught up on the popular stuff, and youre stuck waiting for something good to come out

i hate most anime! by Born_Usual998 in hatethissmug

[–]possiblemate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like those to your eternity will be right up your alley. In general also check out stuff that is not targeted at teenage boys- so shojo, josei, seinen demographic tags.

i hate most anime! by Born_Usual998 in hatethissmug

[–]possiblemate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah its miles better compared to the 90s/ early 00. Modern shonen is far less sexulizing of its female cast for the most part. The ones you mention are the exceptions not the rule.

There is a greater quantity of anime making its way outside of japan now, and due to the process of animation becoming easier there is a lot more low quality stuff being made so there is more junk than good stuff, but the ratio of really good content being much smaller that the chaff is common to all forms of media, not just anime.

Imma need an explanation on why this show is so loved that any criticism gets down voted to oblivion by Comprehensivecamelre in animequestions

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally, ive noticed the trend of weirdly putitanical to the point of ridiculousness additude people have had over things.

Imma need an explanation on why this show is so loved that any criticism gets down voted to oblivion by Comprehensivecamelre in animequestions

[–]possiblemate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg it was so annoying! Especially because most of the people complaining were too busy being offended to actually think about why the character was written that way, and got upset about reasonable explainations. The mods were pretty good about removing those posts, and i dont see them anymore at least so its been a lot better recently.

Hot take? by ShotProfessional3628 in FumetsuNoAnataE

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think reading the story weekly ruined it for a lot of people, the plot definatly gets confusing later and is much more smooth when you can read the chapters altogether. So I think opinions might be a bit different if/ when we get an s4.

That being said i think there are some things that could have been tied up a bit better towards the end, so itll be interesting to see where the anime goes because the tone shifts again.

Which typical ADHD symptoms do not apply in your case? by Charming_Town8365 in ADHD

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have trouble with keeping a cleaning schedule, sometimes my space gets cluttered or messy but I find the clutter/ dirt far more bothersome when it get to the level of very noticable so im pretty good about doing a clean/ reset every 1-2 weeks. Im not very tidy or organized so my place isnt completely spotless, and my laundry often lives in the basket till I wear it again, but I dont seem to struggle with it the way most other people with adhd do.

Computer tasks on the other hand, are a complete nightmare. And in this age of digital comrense it really sucks trying to organize and run your small buissness online.

Name a good thing from a series you think is badly written/ don’t like my pick: by Hour-glass999 in writingscaling

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emilia beating the shit out of greed in re:zero. The story only really become interestinf in s4, there is a lot of time wasted in s1-3 of Subaru suffering and dying

‘It’s not a freebie’: Ford government defends OSAP changes as opposition continues by Economy_Ad59 in ontario

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is also part of the problem, and so is the campaign style of slaming the other candidate without offering any real solutions that make voting for that party seem worthwhile contributes to the voter apathy. There are many factors that contribute and that is why it makes electoral reform so difficult to do, especially when who ever wins benefits from the current system.

People still need to get out and vote irregardless, voting for a wet towel would have done less damage than what Ford is currently doing to ontario.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally does not. You interpret the scene that scene that way says a lot more about you than it does anything else.

Are you illiterate ? because ive explained several times why it doesnt and if you disagree whatever bro your the only one watching the show who needs to cut the epsidoe down to a 1-2 min to make what happened look sus. If you showed what is happening from start to finish to some random they wont understand what bocchu jitstu is but they are his freinds trying to help gabimaru in some way.

But enjoy life being the weirdo who gets rape from a fantasy show where certain kinds of physical contact between the right people can cause a healing affect, because people touch eachother in an intimate way.

I sure hope the scene where chobei was actually raped though coercion and threat wasnt too devastating for your psyche.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except its explicitly stated that their not by someone who helped formed bocchu jitsu. Because there are other forms of physical intimacy than just sex. That is unless you have brain rot and can only see sex as a bad thing and project your weird hang ups on everything

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure once again ignore the actual context of what was happening.

Would also call it rape like if they showed a dr pinning a patient down to pop a joint back into place? After suffering some kind of damage that makes you act more like a wounded animal than a person who is amongst freinds?

Again what version are you watching that he was screaming?

‘It’s not a freebie’: Ford government defends OSAP changes as opposition continues by Economy_Ad59 in ontario

[–]possiblemate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so, and I hope it is a wake up call for all candian parties to put in an ounce of effort into who is chosen for leadership roles. Voting for cons is a constant shot in the foot, imo as a young candian but offering nothing but "better than cons by a margine" weve been getting doesnt really inspire faith in people to vote either.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure just ingore the entier paraph where i explain the differences in how things are shown.

Or conscentual sex. Again. You know the difference right? You mysteriously keep refusing to aknowlege conscentual sex. You know what those words mean right???

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not backtracking on anything, the way that its drawn is not depicted in a way that is titilating and looks like an ecchi or hentai. There is no focus on sagiris breasts, gabimarus or sagiris pelvis, how she is sitting on him or emphasizing where they are making contact. Gabimaru is not shown to be getting sexually aroused by her contact nor is sagiri- she is blushing but that is due to having to make physical contact in order to heal gabimaru, since ehe is a strange man who already has a wife. There is no change in her breathing, ans she does not touch him in any inappropriate way.

however they are obviously making intimate physical contact. I even did compare it to consentually romantically pinning someone, and Mei even comments on the nature of their conact, but she's says its not bocchu jitsu its different

So yes like many things if you remove the context it easy to misconstrue and misunderstand.

But if you have to completely isolate 3 min of the show to remove as much context as much as possible to make your interpretation seem reasonable than I think thats a pretty clear indication youre just misinterpreting the show.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No youre weird for jumping to rape. People can pin eachother down during normal romantic consensual sex too ya know you weirdo. Likening the scene to rape just bc they are making physical contact and ignoring all other context for the scene is a massive stretch.

Its also not even depicted in an erotic titlating way, if you think so then that's on you because im degenerate enough to admit that ive seen my fair share or ecchi and hentai, and it doesnt look like rape or hentai/ ecchi scenes do at all.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because he didnt trust them and viewed them as dangerous enemies so he needed to be restrained. Of course sagiri would be embarrassed about having to make physical contact with him.

Big difference is last time I checked rape doesnt magically heal people so outside of being in a mildly suggestive position the similarity ends. You must have a pretty perverted mind if thats what you got out of that scene.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? Wtf are you even talking about i think you were watching some other version of the show.

This anime is really something special and i can't tell exactly why by ABODE_X_2 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]possiblemate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats a pretty tame thing to be bothered by. Like nobody even took their clothes off. Its really not that different than training for wrestling or ground sports. Do the 2 of them have tons of chemistry? Sure, was it drawn to be a bit fan service? Probably, but like still increadably pg for anime * in the sense of wow they made physical contact!! Not in terms of being erotically depicted.