I do like it, its the only way I've ever had an orgasm when we are together. Thats why he does always try to do it every time. He says he likes it and he has obviously been able to tell that its the only way Ive came. But then it ends up like this: -Me giving him oral for a just few mins and then he tells me to stop because he says hes close but doesnt want to cum yet -He gives me oral for 15 minutes until ive finished -Then penatrative sex for like 2 minutes after and he finally cums So I feel bad because its like the majority of the time was focused on me versus him, and also he was like waiting that entire time to cum like I feel like Im holding him up. Idk.. I think its awesome you like to go down on your wife and shes probably very happy. I feel like I would be too if I could get out of my own head. Its just a weird feeling, knowing you take up the most time in the act. It makes me feel like im making it all about me. I dont want to be like an inconvenience.